"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Massive gap in class on this board.

Single4Life

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shrugs. more important stuff to worry about than who has class or not on here.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MM92

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wow, has something i started really got this much a reaction? i must be a "troll" lol?

all i really meant is there are some amazing knowledgable people on here that try use their knowledge and experience to help others. yet there are so many cringeworthy people on here that don't go out and experience it for themselves, or if they do at least take advice off the people on here that know what they're on about.

just my opinion lads :) if you're here but not willing to learn from people that know the ins and outs you're a tool
 

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MM92 said:
wow, has something i started really got this much a reaction? i must be a "troll" lol?

all i really meant is there are some amazing knowledgable people on here that try use their knowledge and experience to help others. yet there are so many cringeworthy people on here that don't go out and experience it for themselves, or if they do at least take advice off the people on here that know what they're on about.

just my opinion lads :) if you're here but not willing to learn from people that know the ins and outs you're a tool
Agreed 100% that's why I've been lurking here for a great deal of time, its became my daily routing to check for quality threads with quality responses from quality members :D and me being me and making excuses its time for me to get things into my own hands, grab these contact lenses I promised myself to get and kick this part of my life into next gear.
 

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Way to go, man. I wish you well. it sounds like you're pretty motivated.
 
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