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Don Juan
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shrugs. more important stuff to worry about than who has class or not on here.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Massive gap in class on this board.
- Thread starter MM92
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
wow, has something i started really got this much a reaction? i must be a "troll" lol?
all i really meant is there are some amazing knowledgable people on here that try use their knowledge and experience to help others. yet there are so many cringeworthy people on here that don't go out and experience it for themselves, or if they do at least take advice off the people on here that know what they're on about.
just my opinion lads
if you're here but not willing to learn from people that know the ins and outs you're a tool
all i really meant is there are some amazing knowledgable people on here that try use their knowledge and experience to help others. yet there are so many cringeworthy people on here that don't go out and experience it for themselves, or if they do at least take advice off the people on here that know what they're on about.
just my opinion lads
if you're here but not willing to learn from people that know the ins and outs you're a tool
blind_one
Master Don Juan
Agreed 100% that's why I've been lurking here for a great deal of time, its became my daily routing to check for quality threads with quality responses from quality membersMM92 said:wow, has something i started really got this much a reaction? i must be a "troll" lol?
all i really meant is there are some amazing knowledgable people on here that try use their knowledge and experience to help others. yet there are so many cringeworthy people on here that don't go out and experience it for themselves, or if they do at least take advice off the people on here that know what they're on about.
just my opinion lads
and me being me and making excuses its time for me to get things into my own hands, grab these contact lenses I promised myself to get and kick this part of my life into next gear.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Way to go, man. I wish you well. it sounds like you're pretty motivated.