Masculine Energy

[Modern Man Dan]

Hey guys

I'm going to talk about one of the ways that you can become a man who NATURALLY attracts women. So, let's get started by looking at a fundamental fact of nature:

MASCULINE ENERGY ATTRACTS FEMININE ENERGY.

And

FEMININE ENERGY ATTRACTS MASCULINE ENERGY.

What do I mean by that?

Well, have you ever stopped to think about why 'cheerleaders' are often attracted to 'star quarterbacks' and vice versa?

Why does that 'dating phenomenon' happen time and time again?

Apart from the superficial reasons such as increased popularity, their attraction is primarily based on the amazing feelings and experiences they can achieve from each others’ SEXUAL POLARITY.

Think about it.

Cheerleaders are often very feminine and star quarterbacks are often very masculine, so their ENERGIES compliment each other and blend together to create a MAGNETIC sexual attraction.

Two POLAR opposites.

Now, stop and take a few seconds to picture a guy who has a feminine personality; a bit of a 'girl' if you might.

Depending on her psychology, a feminine woman will find it virtually impossible to feel attraction for a feminine guy.

But, wait a minute...

Why then, do we often hear women saying things like "I want a nice guy who cares for me and does thoughtful things"?

Interesting question. Even more interesting is the answer...

When woman says such a thing, she isn't imagining a feminine guy who'll be kissing up to her and being soft, gentle and thoughtful all the time. She's imagining a man who can make her FEEL LIKE A WOMAN with his sexy, masculine personality and also surprise her with a bit of thoughtful, gentle and nice behaviour...SOMETIMES.

Starting to get it?

Good.

Put up your hand if you ever played with magnets as a kid.

Can you remember what happened when you tried to stick two of the same POLES together?

They repelled away from each other, right?

Much is the same with sexual attraction in terms of MASCULINE and FEMININE energy. As the old cliche so rightly goes: OPPOSITES attract.

But, that isn't the end of the story.

No.

Have you ever seen a Yin & Yang symbol?

Of course you have.

If so, you might have noticed that the masculine and feminine energies blend together a little. Some of you may now be thinking "So, what is that supposed to signify?"

That's charm my friend.

IMO, it's a side of you that surfaces in SMALL DOSES and can sweep a woman off her feet, AS LONG AS 80% of your personality, behaviours and actions are MASCULINE.

Do it too much of it and:

1) You'll become too feminine.
2) It'll lose it's charm, and;
3) You'll NATURALLY REPEL her.

But we all want to NATURALLY ATTRACT women, right?

Of course we do.

So, what's the solution?

Be a MAN and allow her to be a WOMAN.

Some examples of a man being FEMININE:

* Caring TOO MUCH about his appearance (e.g. getting pedicures and manicures to 'look nice').
* Being prissy.
* Being shy and quiet around other guys (i.e. behaving like the omega (lowest ranking) male in social situations).
* Huddling into a woman like she is his replacement mummy.
* Acting like Carson from 'Queer Eye For The Straight Guy' when using routines.

Some examples of a man being MASCULINE:

* Being emotionally strong in difficult situations.
* Maintaining a masculine physique.
* Being socially confident (i.e. behaving like an alpha (highest ranking) male in social situations).
* 'Taking charge' in the bedroom.

Some examples of a MASCULINE man being charming with a woman:

* Opening the door for her like a gentleman.
* Gently stroking her body following a session of hard, passionate sex.
* Holding her in a way that allows her to feel like his GIRL, who is safe and protected from the world.
* Surprising her out of the blue with something special or thoughtful.

And so on...

Hope you guys find this useful.

Cheers

Modern Man Dan
http://www.themodernmansite.com/

 

[tmpgstx]

Yeah this is good stuff.

To see attraction to 'maleness' or male polarity from a female's point of view, visit the following page:

http://www.seducingwomen101.com/dag/dag10.html

 

[Boner da Stoner]

*cough* nice concept *cough*

 

[wowiehowie]

Originally posted by tmpgstx
Lol .. well no one expected boner da stoner to understand it. You got to have a few brain cells left ..

Too much weed, no doubt...

*cough* loser *cough*

 

[ScrewIt]

yep

I have 2 guy friends that are somewhat effeminate and lacking confidence, somewhow they cant help but find themselves attracted to *****y women (or women that take charge).

hehe...one of them even went out with an assertive woman who payed for everything and kept caling him up, basically he was the bytch. Upon realizing this he cut it off with her...haha

But as for yin/yang ..polar oposites attract is not always true.

Studies have shown that similarities (having things in common) is usually (most of the time) the attracting force between 2 persons compared to the "opposites attract" thing.

 

[tmpgstx]

Good point, i think with yin and yang he is referring to the amount of maleness to femaleness ratio. The more natural dominance a male displays, the naturally more feminine females will be attracted to him.

Usually married couples have a good male to female thing. Look at people you know that are strongly attracted to each other. See how 'male' he is and how 'female' she is (physically and personality). If he exhibits some 'female' characteristics, then she will no doubt exhibit some 'male' characterstics to counter balance his female characteristics in terms of strong polarity attraction. While much of it is physical, there is the personality part of it also.

What he's lacking he finds attractive in her. What she's lacking she finds most attractive in him. If she is very feminine, she will be looking for a bigger stronger masculine male to marry. If she is less feminine, she will be looking for a meek guy and so on. While there are exceptions, it seems to hold true for the most part.

Also, if someone has a similar facial bone structure to another person, they are very much attracted (again shown in many married couples).

 

[Boner da Stoner]

*chopped and screwed*

I love the alpha male attitude

and the fact that he said nothing

*cough*anybody here notice my sarcasm?*cough*

salesman techniques, hope none of you buy this book, you don;t need it from what he's saying

 

[LeviathanIYG]

What is your viwe on seduction then DAN?

 

[Modern Man Dan]

Hey, this forum is cool.

Thanks for the positive feedback guys...much appreciated.

The post by tmpgstx helped explain the bits I didn't include. This is good stuff:

"Look at people you know that are strongly attracted to each other. See how 'male' he is and how 'female' she is (physically and personality). If he exhibits some 'female' characteristics, then she will no doubt exhibit some 'male' characterstics to counter balance his female characteristics in terms of strong polarity attraction. While much of it is physical, there is the personality part of it also.

...and this is exactly what I was trying to help guys avoid (if they want to, that is):

"one of them even went out with an assertive woman ...basically he was the bytch"

I was talking to a shop-assistant recently (a 46-yr old woman) about what I teach and she said that she actually preferred guys who had feminine qualities and who (I'm quoting her here) were "A bit needy"

Although pretty, she had a lot of masculine qualities to her personality. We got to chattin and after a few minutes of conversation, she admitted that she liked those sorts of guys as "It's easier to keep them...I'm 46 years old and have never been married...I always went for the wrong sorts of guys and now I'm paying for it"

Lol...humans are funny

P.s. you can check out the Yin & Yang graphic on my site if you're interested...click here

 

[donjuan87]

Good post!

You're heading towards Don Juan Bible inclusion if you keep up the good posts, I would think.

 

[LeviathanIYG]

I believe being a MAN is a major part of "the game" but it’s definitely doesn’t get you through any given situation.

YOU HAVE TO BE A MAN TO GET WOMAN!!

But

Seduction is what gives you the tools to seduce any woman you want.

Knowing the ins and outs of seduction gives you the ability to approach any woman and have her fall in love with you in a heartbeat (Little exaggeration but you get the idea).

After all that's what this is all about.

Guy's want to be able to go out thinking "I want sex tonight" and GET IT.

Masculinity will help with the attraction but to get any woman you want, on any given day, in any given location you need to know how to seduce.

Women will want you for your masculinity but will be obsessed with you for your seduction.

 

[Modern Man Dan]

LeviathanIYG said:


"Women will want you for your masculinity but will be obsessed with you for your seduction."

Exactly.

And at this point, I'd throw in the 80/20 rule.

80% is having a strong personal psychology (otherwise known as 'inner game').

20% is having the social know-how to make things happen.

I have some friends who are naturals and women feel attracted to the many masculine parts of their personality...but then they ruin it by showing too much interest or by not knowing know how to progress things forward with the woman.

...and that's the great thing about what we do.

We have the 20% all worked out (well, we're working it out anyway ) and are building up the 80% day by day.

End result?

A real man...



P.s. thanks for the kudos donjuan87 ...much appreciated

 

[LeviathanIYG]

Good man i like you we think alike.

Not suprisingly im from Australia to.

hey check your private mesages i need to ask you a few questions.

and NO im not buying your e-book lol