http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qa1nzD-n25Q
is this fake ??
is this fake ??
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I completely agree. The fact that the "death touch" didn't work on anyone but his own students is all one needs to know. It's like those crazy revivalist preachers you see tap people's forehead and the person faints to the ground and swears it was God that did it. Lots of other religious practices have things were people lose their minds or enter some altered state of consciousness going through some ritual. But I think they are just psyching themselves out.CaptainJ said:Not fake, but it is all psychological. Derren Brown does something similar, where he punches the air in front of a person, and they get knocked to the floor.
The psychology behind it is the belief that your body is going to enter a state of shock after this "death touch" will likely cause it to go into a state of shock. Basically the placebo effect. It's all fabricated in the person's mind. The guy's students all believe in his ability to "death touch", so their brain is tricked into entering a state of shock. Derren brown does this in one of his tv shows, very effectively on martial arts trainers. I think behind the scenes, he hypnotises them to be susceptible to the punches, which is in effect what this trainer has done to his students, as they believe he has the power.