"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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aWolf

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I'm back again with another problem

Me, 24yrs old, student & agency owner

Her, 26yrs old, graduate & employee.

She's married for 3 yrs, known him for 10 yrs. only guy she dated.

Had a fling with a co-worker before she met me. Her husband is a player.


She doesn't want to get pregnant from him. Always fighting, thinking of divorce.

Met her at a club with her friend 2 months ago.

We made out and fvck every other day. Been on this for a month

She developed some feelings, told me she cant get enough.

Aaked me ifi see other girls, said yes and she met one of them.

Last night we had a fight because she checked my phone & discovered that i was talking about her to my best buddy. I was telling him that i like this married woman & we made out a lot and so on

She started to flip out telling me how dare i talk about her to other people that she is a married woman & this is just wrong. She told me to fvck off and blocked my number.

Today i mst her and her husband in a restaurant and told her husband he can go cz her friend is coming. I was sitting with two other girls. When her husband left she sat down in our table and started talking And chatting like nothing happened. I was calm and quiet. Then, she unblocked me & texted me telling that her friend had took a private table that we should come and sit with them.


She went to her friend. I payed our table bill and after 30 mins went to the private table just said hi and that i cant stay i have something to do.
And just left.

What do u recommend
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dustmuffin

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She is your employee? She is married? You should know better not to date an employee. Can you say sexual harassment lawsuit? Why not date a single woman? There are plenty around. Your married gf is nothing but drama. Move on or just run!
 

Building_and_Loan

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This situation is a powder keg waiting to go off, and it already has begun.

You've dug yourself quite a hole.
 
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