"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hi , I think am involved with a married women. She is not so much in to me.Here comes the entwist. She is married with one kid. I consoled her couple of times . Kissed her couple of times on cheek and hugged her.Then suddenly we met after long time and she gently kissed me on lips . and then again during the same visit but when I try to kissed her on lips she put forward her cheek. We have been on couple of lunches and now when I proposed for dinner she happily agreed. Now when I try to set the date for Dinner she is excusing her self. I have given her few presents. I have told her that I love her ,but she said she just considered me a good friend( nice guy syndrome). is she really into me or is she scared a little. Sometimes she also allow me to run my hands over her body(like playing MD). We are in California and I soon have to move to New York .
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Gave her presents, told a MARRIED woman you LOVE her. You don't even do this ish for single HB's you are trying to game. She just wants to know prove to herself she still has it. This is fun for her, she just goes home after you treat to bang her husband.AFC traits.
 

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thanks Bro.I know but I need advice onhow to proceed and beat her in her own game .Any advice will be most welcomed.Thnaks again

TW
 

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The best way to beat her at this game is to tell her to go home and give her hubby the same affection she tries to give you. I highly suggest you stay away from a married woman. Especially with a child. That child deserves both parents in its life and you filling the needs of that mans wife where ever he is failing at currently is a sure fire way to wreck a home. Go find a single woman for yourself and stop coveting the married woman.
 

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Epimanes said:
The best way to beat her at this game is to tell her to go home and give her hubby the same affection she tries to give you. I highly suggest you stay away from a married woman. Especially with a child. That child deserves both parents in its life and you filling the needs of that mans wife where ever he is failing at currently is a sure fire way to wreck a home. Go find a single woman for yourself and stop coveting the married woman.
why is this always the default stance? the guy is failing? maybe he is working his arse off to pay for the lifestyle his wife and child have and doesnt have time to indulge her attention seeking as much as he did in the past?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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As I beat my fvckin head against the wall once again, I'll give my standard answer.

Why are you fvcking around with some attention seeking married disloyal idiot b!tch when there are so many single women out there? Are you that desperate for poon?
 

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computerxtutor said:
thanks Bro.I know but I need advice onhow to proceed and beat her in her own game .Any advice will be most welcomed.Thnaks again

TW
You can't! In her eyes, you are nothing but a toy that gives attention. She wants some manly attention, she's got none of it, or lack of it, from her husband, and so she seeks it from you. She wants your attention, and will never give you sex. The only correct option you have here is move on to someone else.
 
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