"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hi , I think am involved with a married women. She is not so much in to me.Here comes the entwist. She is married with one kid. I consoled her couple of times . Kissed her couple of times on cheek and hugged her.Then suddenly we met after long time and she gently kissed me on lips . and then again during the same visit but when I try to kissed her on lips she put forward her cheek. We have been on couple of lunches and now when I proposed for dinner she happily agreed. Now when I try to set the date for Dinner she is excusing her self. I have given her few presents. I have told her that I love her ,but she said she just considered me a good friend( nice guy syndrome). is she really into me or is she scared a little. Sometimes she also allow me to run my hands over her body(like playing MD). We are in California and I soon have to move to New York .
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gave her presents, told a MARRIED woman you LOVE her. You don't even do this ish for single HB's you are trying to game. She just wants to know prove to herself she still has it. This is fun for her, she just goes home after you treat to bang her husband.AFC traits.
 
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thanks Bro.I know but I need advice onhow to proceed and beat her in her own game .Any advice will be most welcomed.Thnaks again

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The best way to beat her at this game is to tell her to go home and give her hubby the same affection she tries to give you. I highly suggest you stay away from a married woman. Especially with a child. That child deserves both parents in its life and you filling the needs of that mans wife where ever he is failing at currently is a sure fire way to wreck a home. Go find a single woman for yourself and stop coveting the married woman.
 
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Epimanes said:
The best way to beat her at this game is to tell her to go home and give her hubby the same affection she tries to give you. I highly suggest you stay away from a married woman. Especially with a child. That child deserves both parents in its life and you filling the needs of that mans wife where ever he is failing at currently is a sure fire way to wreck a home. Go find a single woman for yourself and stop coveting the married woman.
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why is this always the default stance? the guy is failing? maybe he is working his arse off to pay for the lifestyle his wife and child have and doesnt have time to indulge her attention seeking as much as he did in the past?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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As I beat my fvckin head against the wall once again, I'll give my standard answer.

Why are you fvcking around with some attention seeking married disloyal idiot b!tch when there are so many single women out there? Are you that desperate for poon?
 
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computerxtutor said:
thanks Bro.I know but I need advice onhow to proceed and beat her in her own game .Any advice will be most welcomed.Thnaks again

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You can't! In her eyes, you are nothing but a toy that gives attention. She wants some manly attention, she's got none of it, or lack of it, from her husband, and so she seeks it from you. She wants your attention, and will never give you sex. The only correct option you have here is move on to someone else.
 
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