married women?

[speakeasy]

about 3 years ago, I had a married woman bring a condom over my ho use poke a hole in it without me knowing and come up pregnant. She did it to get me to "commit" to her.

Damn brotha, that's some crazy sh*t!

 

[backbreaker]

tell me about it\

the only funny part about it was that i"m of course, black. she's PALE white... she's cute, really cute. has a plain jane sexiness about her. lol, she said "i could just tell my huband it's his"... and we looked at each other and just busted out laughing.. I said "babe... I doubt that would fly.. me myself and Irene all over again"

this is the same woman who begged me to setup a gang bang for her to "fulfill a fantasy" and then has the nerve to wonder why Iwon't commit to her.. mind you she's married with who kids.




now let me ask you... if a woman asks you to setup a gangbang for (which I did)..... do you REALLY think I'm that concerned about the morality of her marriage?

 

[speakeasy]

now let me ask you... if a woman asks you to setup a gangbang for (which I did)..... do you REALLY think I'm that concerned about the morality of her marriage?

You should've caught it on film. Could've sold that thing to a porn studio and made a grip. MILF gangbang episode #1.

 

[backbreaker]

lol.. damn never thought of that

it was funny too. she has been pestering me about it for like a month. I thought she was joking. So she comes over one day and my 2 friends and I were playing Madden 05 (back when it was new) and just getting back from a college football game, getting ready to go out for the night. She is wispering in my ear (tell them.. i really want to).. and we are aruging...I'm like dude... I have no problem with it, but you aren't going to be mad at me when we are done right?

So I say "look guys...... I don't thin there is a non blunt way to say this.. but Beth here wants us to **** her"

It caught both of them by surprise... and one of them said "at the same time?"

so I look at her...?...it's your fantasy babe... you make the rules

So I said tell you what... this isn't something guys can just DO... we are going to go out and get drunk and have fun, and we are going to tear you apart when we get back. We have to get ourselves mentally prepared

She was blowing up my phone the whole night "how much longer, how much longer"

it was actually pretty fun. damn she's a slut

 

[CF9]

Didn't I just post something about fear and justification? Hmmmm.....

So what do you say to the genuine "nice guys" in this forum who feel that they do everything thing that they can to land the "right woman" yet for the life of them, they can't. They take women out, pay for their meals, listen to their sob stories yet they get nothing. Where's their karma or is it just a one way thing?

Karma is AFC; both from the standpoint of facilitating emotional suffering and from the standpoint of limiting you. This world is dog eat dog, not a fair one. Its possible to have a bigger share.

Hmm, I do get what both of you are saying... Maybe it is about morals for me after all; b/c logically, your obviously right Francisco: it should work both ways.

@azanon: I totally respect your view, but man, I don't necessarily think it's AFC (forgive me, I'm new to the terminology). Like I said above, I think I'm mis-using the concept of karma, and really am speaking in terms of morals, or my definition of "decency." I'll give it a little more thought. Thanks..

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I respect your personal decision on the matter. Try not to push your own personal, and arbitrary moral code on others though.

Damn, I wanted to say that...

The fact of the matter is, its the married person's moral obligation not to cheat, no matter how much temptation said married person may face by you or someone else.

:yes:You get it!!!

Karma is AFC; both from the standpoint of facilitating emotional suffering and from the standpoint of limiting you. This world is dog eat dog, not a fair one. Its possible to have a bigger share.

Damn, you fvcking get it!!!

Francisco for president.

Thanks, but I don't know if you want to associate yourself to my platform. The AFC population greatly outnumber us and they can be a surly bunch when aggravated.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...A married woman 99.9% of the time is not going to be anything more than a a side dish **** buddy that is only available when she can get away from her man.

If you know that going in, that takes away 90% of the problems you have.

This is So true.

...
1) If you don't have other plates spinning, don't touch a married woman. when a married woman becomes your only plate or even worse, oneitis... that's when hell brakes loose.

:yes: Yep, a married woman shouldn't be more than a side dish that you occasionally pick at to cleanse your pallet while enjoying a multi-course meal.

...
2) You have to understand.. 99.9 percent of the time she isn't leaving her man.. she just wants to have some fun. keep it that way and expect nothing more

:yes: It's just that simple.

...
Whenever someone develops feelings, real ones, for theother.. regardless of who it is.. it's time to move on.

Personally, I let them know this up front before anything happens. Having this mutually agreed upon up front makes it so much more enjoyable.

...
with all that said.. I haven't ****ed a married woman in a while and I automatically give them a strike if they are married.. it's too many hot women NOT married out there. But I won't completely rule them out

I go along with this. I automatically walk away from married women but if they put forth a lot of effort in a non-clingy way, I will consider it.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

... Me personally, 50% of the people married today shouldn't be.

I couldn't agree more, and these people are having children!!! People do more research into buying a car than selecting a partner.

 

[ProDJ26]

I couldn't agree more, and these people are having children!!! People do more research into buying a car than selecting a partner.

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Hmm, I do get what both of you are saying... Maybe it is about morals for me after all; b/c logically, your obviously right Francisco: it should work both ways.

I have absolutely nothing against morals (I actually have one or two). But like backbreaker said, discussing them is moot; it's like arguing about religion, politics or 'blond or brunettes.' The thing that I question is the reasons for particular decisions, not the decision itself. Trust me, I'll debate several things like this to much fervor. Just ask me about buying a woman a drink...

I tend to believe that people don't usually put much thought into topics like this. They usually just respond with the morality or karma card which seems like a scape goat to me. Don't get me wrong, I'm in no way trying to change anyone's mind on the subject. I'm just challenging to actually think about it and put some substance around their beliefs.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

It seems funny but it's true! I meet couples almost weekly who I wonder how the hell they got together. More times than not it had something to do with sex. The kicker is that because they hadn't built any foundation in the relationship beyond sex, the sex started to suck (and she stopped).

Ever wonder why most women put so much effort into the wedding? The scary fact is that they believe that the quality of the wedding will dictate the quality of their marriage! Scary but it's true!

 

[backbreaker]

think about how ingraved the marriage "business" is in our world.

do you know if we stopped getting married, it would cause an economic collapse?

think about it.. wedding shops, cake makers, some churches, photographers, wedding planners...... it's in the economy's best interest for you to have oneitis and settle down

 

[Max Power]

think about how ingraved the marriage "business" is in our world.

do you know if we stopped getting married, it would cause an economic collapse?

think about it.. wedding shops, cake makers, some churches, photographers, wedding planners...... it's in the economy's best interest for you to have oneitis and settle down

You forgot divorce lawyers.

 

[Someone Much cooler]

I'm cool with the people on this board. I also respect everyones opinions. I wouldn't mess with a married woman. Its morally wrong to me. If someone else wants to, hell do them. I go to a huge school, i'm cool with alot of people at alot of neighboring schools, I don't prey on emotionally weak girls, I rather wait till they are at teir best befor I try-em. i have friends who have the predator mentality, they search for drunk chick, ho's, *****es with father issues, family problemss, illegal immagrants ect.
Me, I tell em "do you, but I good". Near my crib in brooklyn, this guy gave this other dude a buck-50. This guy slashed this dudes face (open) starting from the ear to the crack of his mouth, kinda like a "J" ,his teeth were showing. He looked like he had lips on the side of his face. He was ****in with that mans *****, now he can smile from the side. A week ago this chick tried to cut this dude **** off for creepin. Heres the best one, on the subway about 3 monthes ago, this guy shot another man for looking at his woman, for looking.....So who are the afcs in this scenerios? The mack daddy's who did the ****in and are now permantly ****ed up? The guys who got played and then carved the mack daddys face like a jack-o-lantern? Or the girl who got on with her ho-ish life and is prolly pipin anothe person?

 

[backbreaker]

I don't prey on emotionally weak girls, I rather wait till they are at teir best befor I try-em.

what makes a board women emotionally weak?

You have to look at it in a broder spectrum than what the media has portrayed you to look into.

say you are Mr. AFC. you marry this girl when she is 19. You buy her flowers, you are making nothing of yourself, you have gained weight, you aren't sexy.. you are barley bearable to the woman you married.

What makes the woman who looks at other men emotionally weak? Because she isn't attracted to your AFC ways anymore?

The problem with this world is too many AFC's are getting married.

Alot of women, like some men.. hate being single. I usually advoid women like this anyway so they are of no concern to me. But women are known to "search" for a backup plan before actually leaving the man they are with. if you are going around discarding all these women as "emotionally weak" you are missing out on tons of quality ass.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...The problem with this world is too many AFC's are getting married. ....

BOOYAH!!!

 

[speakeasy]

There's nothing wrong with marriage. You guys talk about it like it's a bad thing. If someone decides that marriage is not for them, then to each his own.

I think it's great when two people found something special and make the ultimate commitment. Nothing wrong with that. I mean do re really need 150 million playaz for life running around out there anyway?

 

[backbreaker]

There's nothing wrong with marriage. You guys talk about it like it's a bad thing. If someone decides that marriage is not for them, then to each his own.

I think it's great when two people found something special and make the ultimate commitment. Nothing wrong with that. I mean do re really need 150 million playaz for life running around out there anyway?

speakeasy you are misisng the point. Stop using sesame street logic

I one don't believe in marriage as it stands today. but for arguments sake, let's say I did.

There is NOTHING wrong with the concept of marriage.

the PROBLEM is not the concept, it's the participants.


sadly enough, every marriage for the most part, execpt my dad's, is in one of the following catorogires

1) women "settling" for the nearest man to them with a pulse

2) Men locking up the first thing after being 18 that gave them constant *****.

3) A man doing everything in his power to marry ONE woman that he happened to date more than a year despite obvious waring signs

my old onentis is now engaged... she has broken up with him 5 times. Cheated on him so many times I can't even count (some with me). Why? Because she can and she knows, not thinks.. KNOWS he isn't going anywhere. To him this.. thing is the best thing that has ever happened to him. She called me one day and she was single.. I called her 2 weeks later and he bought her a 2 carrot diamond engagement ring and proposed to her.. and she STILL turned him down. He took it back, and got a more expensive one, and after thinking about it and realizing she wouldn't be really loosing anything by saying yes.. she accepted.

this is marriage today. My old oneiits is smokin hot, but not in the least bit marraige material to any man worth his salt.

My dad did it the right way. He played the field. After he and my mom got a divorce. he spun plates. And spun plates. And spun more plates.. until (my stepmom) stood out and spun faster than ALL the other plates.. she's 12 years younger, she's an RN, can take care of herself (and I love my dad... but she's HOT)... the only thing that was a snag was she had a daughter but my dad loves kids so it wasn't the biggest of deals for him. Even when he found her... it took him 5 YEARS of dating her, to propose. They are as happy as can be now. For all the flirting my dad does, that's just is his nature.. he's not going anywhere, and she likewise. that is what a marriage should be about. Not hoping one can "stand" each other for an extended amount of time.

 

[Someone Much cooler]

I'm cool with the people on this board. I also respect everyones opinions. I wouldn't mess with a married woman. Its morally wrong to me. If someone else wants to, hell do them. I go to a huge school, i'm cool with alot of people at alot of neighboring schools, I don't prey on emotionally weak girls, I rather wait till they are at their best befor I try-em. i have friends who have the predator mentality, they search for drunk chick, ho's, *****es with father issues, family problemss, illegal immagrants ect.

backbreaker -nah bored women aren't nessesarily weak i am referencing being a predator and parasitic. Hell people are people and they are gonna screw. Thats how it is. I'm sayin you play with fire your eventually gonna cook.

 

[backbreaker]

I can respect that.

As much talking as I am doing... I don't think I would date a married woman. I have too many options.

**** I think I just answered my own question