“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Married woman question

Weaselpuke

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So I've known this married woman for about 5 years, she got married about 2 1/2 years ago. We have kept in touch over the years but really haven't hung out very much,,, SHE'S MARRIED :). So out of the blue she starts calling me more and more and wants to start hanging out. Which is fine with me, she is fun to do stuff with . So I asked her why she wasn't doing fun stuff (biking, running, boarding etc etc) with her husband and she mention that he has a different agenda, then she made a comment in passing.. your probably asking yourself why I married him.. I really didn't response. Not sure maybe she is questioning why she got married. The guy seems kinda like an ass, but he does have alot of money to buy her nice things:)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Weaselpuke

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I guess the question is ,, she seems to be having problems with her marriage. whats best to drill her about it or just kind of act like it doesn't really matter to me ?
 

DJDamage

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Originally posted by Weaselpuke
I guess the question is ,, she seems to be having problems with her marriage. whats best to drill her about it or just kind of act like it doesn't really matter to me ?
B.S man. You want to fvck her, just say it. At this moment she is going to use you like an the emotional tampon . Why are you keeping in touch with a married woman? I would understand if her husband was there too when you hang out but since he isn't, you have no business to be there.
 

Rollo Tomassi

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Damn man, spin more plates. You should certainly have more irons in the fire to keep you busy with than putting effort into a married woman.

If she's really on the rocks with the husband it'll work itself out and if she actually has any IL at all she'll pursue you then.

You're missing out on women with far better potential than this one by wasting any mental effort on her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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THE3RDGENERAL

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WORST CASE SCENARIO!!!

Originally posted by DJDamage
B.S man. You want to fvck her, just say it. At this moment she is going to use you like an the emotional tampon . Why are you keeping in touch with a married woman? I would understand if her husband was there too when you hang out but since he isn't, you have no business to be there.

I think that he is right. You give me the impression that you want too bed this married woman. I'm not going to tell you if I think you should, or should not pursue her. What I want to tell you is to think about the worst-case scenario.

During my next to last year of High school, I was messing around with a
Girl whose boyfriend was a Guarding Angel. This was pretty risky, but in the end I thought that she was worth the chance of her boy friend (and his best friend, who was also a Guarding Angel) finding out about us, walking up to me on the street and beating the dog s**t out of me. It never happed. However, that was "my" worst-case scenario. What would yours be if her husband found out about the two of you? Would he ignore it, slap her around or would he kick your front door down looking for a little payback!?!

Keep in mind, "most" worst-case scenario?s "never" come too pass. But If they do, it's better to see it coming before it gets there , than to just stand around like a deer in the headlights.

Choose wisely.

"He who hesitates, gets mugged".
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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:p I'm just going to bite my tongue... :p
 

FratAndDiddy

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i did a post about a year back on married women........

dangerous territory bro

let's say you get your noodle wet and she likes it

let's say she gets mad at hubby one night and she spills her cheatin beans about you and him

dont be a deer in the headlights like 3 general said
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by FratAndDiddy
i did a post about a year back on married women........

dangerous territory bro

let's say you get your noodle wet and she likes it

let's say she gets mad at hubby one night and she spills her cheatin beans about you and him

dont be a deer in the headlights like 3 general said
Married women are good fillers because:

  1. No implied commitment (ie no strings).
  2. They usually are repressed sexually and would need a good outlet.
  3. They can be a good boost to your ego.
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biker_gixxer

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let's say she gets mad at hubby one night and she spills her cheatin beans about you and him

argh, in my mind, the pu$$y isn't worth the aggravation.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Junior Sanz

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if you hit this dudes girl off, just expect dudes to hit your girl off in the future......


karma is a Biotch!
 

drZaius09

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F*CK HER, F*CK HER, F*CK HER. If she wants it, give it to her.

The husband is NOT your problem. Did you walk down the aisle and marry that guy? Oh... you didn't? Ok, so then why should you feel a committment to this person?

Don't give me this "karma" BULLSH1T either... SHE is the one violating her contract and cheating on the husband. SHE is the wh0re. YOU are doing nothing wrong. Don't feed into the pu$$ified "holier-than-thou" HORSESH1T all the creepy old men are trying to tell you on here. They've all probably been cheated on more times than they've actually had sex-- that's why they're still here!

So do what you want to do. Personally, my wet dream is to find a steady married f*ck-toy, because I know she won't be up my a$$ all the time when we're not screwing. It's the perfect arrangement-- husband does all the grunt work, and I do all the GRUNT work. Hahaha.... go for it.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by drZaius09
F*CK HER, F*CK HER, F*CK HER. If she wants it, give it to her.

The husband is NOT your problem. Did you walk down the aisle and marry that guy? Oh... you didn't? Ok, so then why should you feel a committment to this person?

Don't give me this "karma" BULLSH1T either... SHE is the one violating her contract and cheating on the husband. SHE is the wh0re. YOU are doing nothing wrong. Don't feed into the pu$$ified "holier-than-thou" HORSESH1T all the creepy old men are trying to tell you on here. They've all probably been cheated on more times than they've actually had sex-- that's why they're still here!

So do what you want to do. Personally, my wet dream is to find a steady married f*ck-toy, because I know she won't be up my a$$ all the time when we're not screwing. It's the perfect arrangement-- husband does all the grunt work, and I do all the GRUNT work. Hahaha.... go for it.
Another DJ that knows the beauty of having a married woman chase 'ya. :up:
 

biker_gixxer

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Another DJ that knows the beauty of having a married woman chase 'ya

haha, you crack me up bro...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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