Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Married woman, its different this time..

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So I am a single guy and feel pretty free to mess around as I see fit if the woman is sending signs. I have banged married woman before and they were always the pursuer and I know the rules about not falling for them and realizing it's just sex and typically filling a gap for them which is totally cool with me cause i'm in it for the sex alone. It always has worked great, even when you move on and quit seeing them cause they can't really tell anyone or risk there marriage. So last night I went out with cousin and she brought along her best friend who is married and I have meet her husband before and they seemed happy. So throughout the night bar bouncing around she became very very flirtashious with me, wanting to hold hands, touching my ass, my abs etc. We went to a club and I was staring at another girl and it was even like she got jealous and was hinting around that I wanted the girl so I said some **** like yeah I could pull her if I want, I can be pretty persuasive and she said I'd like to see that side of you. So I seen the green light and went with it, started making out with this chick and we continued fooling around throughout the night. I took her home late late that night, she couldn't stay at my place cause she has a kid and a babysitter was there. Husband was out working I guess. On the ride home she was asking how many girls i'm seeing right now, if I ever dated a girl with a kid, how her marriage sucked and she doesn't even have sex with her husband anymore and is not happy and feels unappreciated. We swapped numbers she didn't know what to put for my name in her phone as she wants to hide it somehow from him, and I went to drop her off, she continued making out with me in my vehicle and finally had to stop and get out cause I know what was fixing to happen if we kept on in her parking lot and she had no idea when her husband would be home. She text me later that night and the next morning but I haven't pursued meeting up as I know the rules here and you have to be very descreat. I've let a couple days pass and haven't wrote her but definately want to and believe she would be down. It's just different this time around cause normally the woman is always the aggresser in the past situations i've had like this. Any thoughts on how to play this out and seal the deal guys? I'm all ears..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Some reason you can't bang single women? There are plenty. If you can pull so many gals as you say, why go there? Bad news all the way around.

I'm married and carry a .45 Colt Commander. Hope you are not at my house when I get home early from work.

Wake up and listen to HalfAddict.
 

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5string said:
Some reason you can't bang single women? There are plenty. If you can pull so many gals as you say, why go there? Bad news all the way around.

I'm married and carry a .45 Colt Commander. Hope you are not at my house when I get home early from work.

Wake up and listen to HalfAddict.
haha , I think husbands now a days not aggressive as before , in Toronto , women totally don't care about what will be their husband reaction .

OP: married women don't play games because it is all about sex so if you call her or she call you no different.
 

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Dear Smithie,
Look I know,"him who is without sin,let him cast the first stone"I am not being judgemental,but as 5String tells you,blokes who can find a Guy to blame for all the trouble in their marriage can get pretty nasty....Such people have mates and relations who get upset too...This happened to a mate of mine,when I was in my twenties....Just like you he was set up by a frustrated wife who married young to a Bricklayer,she had a kid and social pretensions...she had made the wrong move...Sooo after about six weeks of philandering,she told her husband she was moving out,dropped the kid off on her Mum and Dad,and lobbed in unanounced on my friend....My mate had done two years of Legal School and was working as a Quasi Professional in a top legal firm....Events tend to move quickly in such matters...Our Bricky didn't really need a golf club he was a Mountain of a Man,but he was upset....Turning up late to a professional Office in those Days was a sin....So you can imagine how happy the Principal of the firm was when the Office Juniors Mate turns up and proceeds to take the Junior and several of his colleagues apart,with scant regard for the furniture...So my mate came out of Hospital to find his Flat in good order,and very tidy with a little ready made Family...He decided to do a runner to his Brother in Sydney,but there were a few difficulties his left Knee had been smashed with a number two Iron,and even if he could operate his clutch,it wouldn't have been much use because his little Morris Convertible had been crushed about four foot long against a tree...Quite a joke really,it was rumoured that The Brickies Brother in Law who owned a Gravel truck,didn't even have a scratch on the piece of 8X3 Steel Channel that served as his Bumper Bar...Interesting though,the Lady in question stuck with my mate and the Kid too...He eventually traded her in,but the kid and him have a wonderful relationship...Things turned out well for my friend who is now a deca millionaire,having made his dough in Micronesia of all places.....
Oh by the way Smithie,what did you say your Ladies Hubby does for an earner?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I gotta agree with the rest man...even if it's not a matter of principle to you (to each their own), it should be a matter of efficiency: I man with options doesn't need such trouble in his life.

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Scara, have you ever considered writing memoirs of your life experiences? You have a talent for storytelling my man.
 

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Thanks for the responses gentleman. Scaramouche, his occupation is a truck driver who is out of state alot.
 

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AgentSmith said:
Thanks for the responses gentleman. Scaramouche, his occupation is a truck driver who is out of state alot.
oh, man.

don't get caught.
 

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I've fvcked two married women but I never pursued them.
They always initiated, they always set up the meets, they forced the action.
I didn't feel comfortable actively pursuing another man's wife, and in my twisted logic, I felt it was ok if she pursued me.

In other words OP, don't actively be a cad, don't try to play this one. I'm not condoning fvcking someone's wife, but if she wants to stray, she'll come to you. But she has to be the one to wreck her own life (ie actively seeking an avenue to cheat), don't you do it for her by actively tempting her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This thread seems a good place as any to leave the indubitable words of YaReally.

I mostly stick to Heartiste because this was one of the first Manosphere blogs I read and I like the “not afraid to go into the dark side” attitude here. The ***** “half-gamers” at places like sosuave or Roosh’s forum (not to be confused with Roosh’s blog itself, which I read) are painful to read because they try to pick and choose “dark” traits while trying desperately to keep their “I’m a don juan” politically correct reputations in-tact. “You can’t be half a gangster.”

5string said:
I'm married and carry a .45 Colt Commander. Hope you are not at my house when I get home early from work.
So what? I'm sure the odd cad has been known to pack heat, and knowing the puzzy backward laws of the West, he could probably blast one off into you at the same time he's blasting a load into your Mrs and you'd still be the attacker . The cuckolded (white) beta male will always be the aggressor by default.

With phrases such as "starter marriage" being bandied about and marriage being the joke it is now I say go for it OP, but don't let the herb catch you. :up: Have fun.
 
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I was secretly wishing somebody would say that.

^

Somebody rep Mr.Tits for me, it seems I need to spread some love.
 

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With phrases such as "starter marriage" being bandied about and marriage being the joke it is now I say go for it OP, but don't let the herb catch you. :up: Have fun.[/QUOTE]

More less man. Typical we got married cause we got pregnant story here. I'll probably throw a bait text out there later this week.
 

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I use to drive truck... you would NOT want to mess with some of the guys I used to know. One guy would keep animal parts in his truck, he would bow hunt while on the road and then hack the animal into pieces and keep the pieces in little jars to look at. Another guy spent nearly 3 weeks on the road... 3 weeks without a fvck is a long time and truckers can usually get into fights very quickly out of testosterone build up. The companies know this and look for married drivers over single guys.


Anyway, you are in for a ride man. If you get caught, expect to be rolled over... those guys LIVE for their families and nothing else. They have nothing to look forward to except getting home to their wife and kids, if you take that away from him, there WILL be hell to pay. You are banging his wife on his DOLLAR, guarantee he will be looking for payback. Those guys WORK for their money.

I am surprised at reading so many 'cheating' and 'helping to cheat' threads. I would have thought you'd be using your game to knock up SINGLE women... Where the hell have people's morals gone? Doesn't anyone possess a moral compass anymore? DJ's rewarding cheating wives and then justifying it with "oh he's a jerk and she doesn't FEEL good about him anymore"... what the fvck is wrong with you people? You are feeding the hamsters gourmet food, WHY? Have you ever stopped to wonder if she is LYING to you? Just thinking with your d1ck eh? Real smart.

Have STD's even crossed your mind. If he's the type of guy who bones lot lizards, she might be carrying all sorts of nasties.

HEPITITIS C is so easy to transmit, you can wear a condom and still get infected. You can get infected from kissing...

People...be... aware. Choose SINGLE, unmarried, quality girls, not trailer trash!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This thread seems a good place as any to leave the indubitable words of YaReally.






So what? I'm sure the odd cad has been known to pack heat, and knowing the puzzy backward laws of the West, he could probably blast one off into you at the same time he's blasting a load into your Mrs and you'd still be the attacker . The cuckolded (white) beta male will always be the aggressor by default.

With phrases such as "starter marriage" being bandied about and marriage being the joke it is now I say go for it OP, but don't let the herb catch you. :up: Have fun.
So what? I'll tell you what.

I have seen these situations over my many years. They never have a good result. I have seen people get hurt bigtime. The woman, her lover, families and kids. Point being, a scorned man who catches a woman cheating can be a very scary individual. For a guy to put himself in such a position is simply ludicrous and outright stupid.

I'll just say it. Guys that bang married women are so AFC desperate for that greezy little pvssy that they are losers by design. To do this when there are so many that are single is beyond comprehension.

Bang away fellas and take your chances.
 
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So what? I'll tell you what.

I have seen these situations over my many years. They never have a good result. I have seen people get hurt bigtime. The woman, her lover, families and kids. Point being, a scorned man who catches a woman cheating can be a very scary individual. For a guy to put himself in such a position is simply ludicrous and outright stupid.

I'll just say it. Guys that bang married women are so AFC desperate for that greezy little pvssy that they are losers by design. To do this when there are so many that are single is beyond comprehension.

Bang away fellas and take your chances.

This.

I don't have anything against it morally, I just don't think it's worth the risk.

I mean, you don't even have to get caught by the husband - the b1tch might straight up sell you out.
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
This.

I don't have anything against it morally, I just don't think it's worth the risk.

I mean, you don't even have to get caught by the husband - the b1tch might straight up sell you out.
Exactly!

We're talking pvssy here. Just to get a little, some guys are willing to take the chance of getting caught by the husband, don't even have a thought of the kids they may hurt, the divorce they may cause or any other harm to others that may ensue. All for a little sex. It's called thinking with only with your d!ck.

Pathetic really.
 

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I agree why go after married woman, with children, if you can go out and get single without children and hotter? looks like you don't have much options if you go after married woman
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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