Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You sound like a bleeding heart liberal. Poor old Paul, he was heartbroken, he's wasn't able to protect himself, well he should have been put in an institution if that was the case. Paul is responsible for HIS behaviour just as much as she is for hers. Don't blame her for his naiveness. Do you really think she didn't have any feelings for him and did it solely for the women? I don't deny that she is a gold digger but gold diggers have feelings too (I'm laughing my azz off while I type that last line)jophil28 said:P. Mc Cartney was still grieving for the woman he lost thru illness. That was a cruel stroke of nature - nobody's fault. He was vulnerable and understandably looking to replace his loss with another great woman..
H.Mills clearly took advantage of this and exploited his emotional state.
I am appalled at some of the callousness of a few of you guys . He is not to blame for her duplicitiousness. She is responsible for HER behavior, and perhaps he was naive to trust so readily Does this make him to BLAME for HER behavior because of his ( naive) willingness to enter into a marriage with high levels of trust for someone who purported to love him ? I believed that implicit trust was an essential ingredient of the committment to marriage?
Some of you guys need to get a heart.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If your gonna whine & snivel, at least get your facts straight, she got no where near a quarter billion.thedeparted said:Some guys are totally fvcked in the head. Paul was grieving his wife when this one legged douche-bag of a gold-digging c0ck-svcking slvt showed up to bag him for a quarter BILLION.
There's an excellent case to be made, based on how she behaved throughout the divorce (like how she falsely accused Paul of domestic violence, and flew off the handle at his lawyer), that the daughter should be with her father, the better parent. I don't think Ms One-Legged should get anything.Latinoman said:This other woman...in my opinion, she should ONLY be getting Child Support.
No mate, that makes you a selfish kunt who holds a grudge. You are not entitled to what they have. You one of those chaps who has an issue with people who have money eh?MacAvoy said:Your a better man than me. If I was in that position, I'd do everything to get 100% of their net worth, or I'd piss away as much of their net worth while I was with them, actually I'd syphon it off prior to leaving cuz I'm that smart.
Hey man, don't listen to him, he's talking about pissing and spending the man's money, yet accuses others of being liberal. Apparently it is only ok to be liberal when it comes to spending. Them types have no trouble spending somebody else's money (as in spending liberally on a useless war!).AgonyUncle said:No mate, that makes you a selfish kunt who holds a grudge. You are not entitled to what they have. You one of those chaps who has an issue with people who have money eh?
This is a pointless debate. If you cannot find fault in Mills, then I just dont know.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yeah because there is no way Paul not being the mother would take care of his child anyway right?MacAvoy said:Oh she's so bad cuz she took millions, oh no Poor Paul, he only has $750 million left. Guess what, she's raising his child with that money.
Oh only $48.6M eh?MacAvoy said:she was awarded only $48.6M.
Yeah another win for the "boys" clubMacAvoy said:So all you guys who were whining and complaining can be at ease, as the one legged hor complained that the boys "club" was at work and shut her out.
Married Men get justice:
When Linda met Paul he was already in The Beatles and one of the most famous people in the world. She seemed like a really nice person though. Heather, not so much.Latinoman said:The ONLY person in Paul's life that deserved 50% was his ex-wife (the one that died) as she was there for him during the goods and the bads and when he was starting.
Ask me if I care what you think?( . )( . ) said:MacAvoy, the more posts I read of yours the more retarded I'm finding you.
Sticks & stones ...( . )( . ) said:...Again your a tool.
Yea your showing your MATURITY.( . )( . ) said:See the pattern of "What a fvckin idiot" I keep seeing in your posts? Just stop talking.
It seems that the highest price hor in New York (the kind that the John must date firstketostix said:Anyone see a trend here? If you marry a woman, she is automatically entitled to half of your assets! Talk about prostitution.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
bigjohnson said:How did she support him, and why isn't it that HE gave HER a child?
How about a NSFW tag on those?