"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Married girl - thinking of divorce.

LiveFreeX

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Firstly, I am thankful for the advice. I did not expect anything serious from this girl. i.e her potentially willing to cheat/go against his husband, and her being with a child. Not that I would have said no had she clearly expressed her wishes. And even then it would probably have been a one time affair. Anyway...

The thing is that my trip had already been confirmed when I posted this topic. What I asked was whether or not I should pursue this or not. All of you clearly said that I should not. So I did not. She tried to draw me in in the beginning, but I showed her I was not interested. I had other things to do on the ship and I did not let her distract me.

I am still friends with her
- not simply an aquainaintance or somebody whom I know. We seldom communicate, but she trusts me whenever we do. And no, I am not helping to solve her emotional drama. I still fail to see how considering her a friend could hurt me. I am not doing anything from my part to get together with her. Is it somehow frowned upon as a Don Juan, or an Don Juan apprentice to have female friends? I mean friends of my choosing. i.e excluding being friendzoned.

Now I do not know who the Jack is that I am referred to, but I do not like being insulted for no obvious reason (not obvious to me, at least). I do not like being insulted at all for that matter. Critique is always welcome. This however is not it.
"Stupid is as stupid does."
- Momma

I hope that makes things a little bit more obvious that you are SO STUPID. (That's from my wife and I) But you are very entertaining, Jerry Jerry Jerry!!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LiveFreeX said:
"Stupid is as stupid does."
- Momma

I hope that makes things a little bit more obvious that you are SO STUPID. (That's from my wife and I) But you are very entertaining, Jerry Jerry Jerry!!!
Thank you for clarifying that. Not everyone is as smart as one would expect.
 
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