"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Married ex-plate has facebook meltdown

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So an ex-plate of mine who since married had a kind of meltdown on facebook the other week. She ranted about loving her husband and that just cos she doesn't have pictures of them together (i've not seen one and i have to admit i did think it was odd) does not mean their marriage is on the rocks.

her having a rant is most unlike her as she comes from a good family, has a good social standing and as long as i've known her (since 1995) is a really nice person who has recently overcome breast cancer.

anyway, so we got talking and i asked her who the picture of one guy was she was pictured was (i admit i was a it jealous) and she explained he was just a friend and she only had her heart for me. everywhere. ALWAYS!!!!!!

i thought that a little odd considering her rant about her 'happy' marriage. what do you think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Typical confused, insane woman.

Methinks she protests too much.
 
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Hard to tell, i'm in a similar situation with my X too. She just got married and not a single pic of both of them together kissing or even together really. I kinda felt bad for her...
 
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