Married c0ckblockers

[MrWood]

What are with these dudes? Recently I called out my co-workers for c0ckblcking

typical scenario:

I am in the tech industry, security specialist, not alot of decent looking and interesting chicks in this field. Industry get togethers, after work drinks in foreign cities and the one or two chicks are being chatted up by 5 dudes circling them, every single one of them with a wedding band... and all serious AFC
talking to the only hottie.

WTF!

 

[MrWood]

The 5 married dudes, I dont believe in being yet one more of those 5, and the single dude.
Basically these dudes are the "omg your so hot I am lucky to be talking to you cuz I am married to a fat cow"
She gets all the attention for free, instantly pedestalized and loving it. No need to get validated by the wild cannon single dude.

She has no real need for yet another one in the circle trying to grab her attention. In one case I did hang back until she was alone, and got a date cuz I was not one of the 5, most other times there is no break to get her in a 1on1

 

[Skyline]

Don't think I've been in a situation like that but I do find myself withdrawing from women who have more than 2 guys talking directly talking to her(me being 3) by excusing myself.

Unless it's an actual circle of conversation between all of us.

Just a turn off for me.

 

[Billtx49]

No problem she will notice who has rings on their fingers, just like we do. The only ****blocker in that situation is the married guy that has taken the ring off and is looking for some strange.
Wait for your time and make your move. Or invade the convo…
If she likes she selects who she gives attention to.
Inner game and confidence

 

[logicallefty]

A day in the life of a married AFC: Go home to wifey wifey who calls all the shotzy' shotzies', no pooney' pooney' from wifey' wifey' when he wantey' wantey', go out horny' horny' and talkie' talkie' to chickie' chickie' out of reachie' reachie' and thinkie thinkie' he have small chance to tappy' tappy', go home with the balls bluey' bluey and look at porney' porney' and jerkey' jerkey' next to wifey wifey while she sleepy sleepy.

 

[ZTIME]

What are with these dudes? Recently I called out my co-workers for c0ckblcking

typical scenario:

I am in the tech industry, security specialist, not alot of decent looking and interesting chicks in this field. Industry get togethers, after work drinks in foreign cities and the one or two chicks are being chatted up by 5 dudes circling them, every single one of them with a wedding band... and all serious AFC
talking to the only hottie.

WTF!

In my industry we do a lot of conventions throughout the US. I see married dudes hitting on chicks all the time, or getting hookers for the evening. Vegas of course being #1 for this behavior.

You know your coworkers better then anyone here and should know which of them normally display this behavior. Next time you go out on the town leave those guys behind. Your odds of success will increase.

On a side note: even if they are "****blockers", never call them out on it. It kind of makes you sound like the Whiny kid saying "you guys have ice cream at home and I don't. So let me get some ice cream here!

 

[MrWood]

These dudes in particular will not and do not screw around on their wives as I known them +5yrs
Yea the call out was abit lame, but I did it in a laughing way.

I did make a point to say goodbye to the girl, she had invited me to be the keynote speaker.

@Skyline exactly

@ZTIME at Defcon in Vegas I could care less and its 10k ppl and happens all the time heh

 

[ZTIME]

These dudes in particular will not and do not screw around on their wives as I known them +5yrs
Yea the call out was abit lame, but I did it in a laughing way.

I did make a point to say goodbye to the girl, she had invited me to be the keynote speaker.

@Skyline exactly

@ZTIME at Defcon in Vegas I could care less and its 10k ppl and happens all the time heh

Totally see what you're saying. No doubt about your skill, but sometimes it's easier to stack the deck for an assured win.

Don't carry your married friends teaching them.......carry yourself confusing them. Leave them to the limited pigs in the bar as you feast where the hungry don't exist.

Or something like that anyway! We tend to preach to our friends that will listen, as opposed to speaking through action.

I always found that a girl in my hotel room speaks louder than a completion with those who try to speak the loudest......married or not.

 

[Vivacity]

Don't think I've been in a situation like that but I do find myself withdrawing from women who have more than 2 guys talking directly talking to her(me being 3) by excusing myself.

Unless it's an actual circle of conversation between all of us.

Just a turn off for me.

Me too. I withdraw myself if one guy is already talking to or staring at a girl looking for an opportunity to talk to the girl and the girl appears to be interested in him. He is trying already. I don't want to be a c0ckbl0cker.

What are with these dudes? Recently I called out my co-workers for c0ckblcking

typical scenario:

I am in the tech industry, security specialist, not alot of decent looking and interesting chicks in this field. Industry get togethers, after work drinks in foreign cities and the one or two chicks are being chatted up by 5 dudes circling them, every single one of them with a wedding band... and all serious AFC
talking to the only hottie.

WTF!

"People want to have what they can't." It is equally applicable to both men and women.

If you are not reporting to any one of them, you should call out all of them on their B.S., including the girl, and demonstrate who the real alpha is.

I have called out people a few times. For instance, I had called out my building manager, who is also vice-president of the company that owns the building, who was hitting on a young receptionist. The president, who is the owner of the building, is a different guy, and the president knows that I had called out on the vice-president. I still work in the same building.