"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Marriage..YOU THINK THIS IS A GAME SON!!!!.... you are right

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I just had to post this.

This girl I have been seeing is over here and we are both lounging around, and she asked me could she install this game on my pc.. I'm like why the hell not... sure.

so I don't hear from her for an hour.. obviously she is into it.

check this **** out

http://www.fenomen-games.com/dreamdaywedding.htm
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I hear wedding bells from here! How old is she?
 

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hell no

i'm not getting married.. as soon as she goes to sleep I'm deleting this **** fest off my PC

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32? Why am I not surprised! She is 5 years overdue!

That shyt is not a game - it sends out subliminal messages - "marry me", "marry me", "marry me"!
 

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You should marry her Backbreaker. :crackup: Come on..we know you want to. Give it a go. Let us know how it goes. :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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naw.. she was pretty deep in the game man.. it wasn't show dressing or anything. my last GF I had to pry off the sims to get her to do anything.

I am slightly concerned... I will keep my wits up in case she tries to pull ****.. like the "3 month move in".. you know when women move in one item at a time over 3 months... it's happened to everyone, or her dragging me as her "date" to weddings...
 
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