"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Marriage Will Probably Become Obsolete Soon

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Think about it. Marriage is mostly for "old school" people like our parents and grandparents.

The classic life 50-75 years ago was "go to school, get a job, get married, have a family" and you win at life!

Nowadays, with the baby boom generation slowly dying out over the next 20 or so years, I think the younger generation growing up will not care about marriage.

Most men nowadays just want to have sex with whoever they want with no restrictions. Women are getting that way too. Gone are the days of women saying "I just want to settle down and have a great husband who will treat me with respect and be a good father." This was all well and good in 1950, but it's not 1950 anymore.

Men are SUPPOSED to spread their seed with as many different women as possible and have as many descendants as they can to continue their legacy. This whole "settling down with one woman/man" is almost like brainwashing.

To me it just reeks of "Holy s.hit! I found a woman willing to touch me! Better marry her before it's too late!"

To me it's like someone saying "OK, you can only eat pizza every day for the rest of your life." Well, pizza may be great and all, but having it every day will get old after a while. Sooner or later you're going to want a nice piece of chicken, or steak, or a hamburger, or hot dog, or spaghetti etc etc etc.

This is why I never understood why people get into relationships. I am happy being single and being on the prowl. To me, whenever a guy says "I have a girlfriend" it makes him look like a p.ussy.

Why stay with one girl when you can have so many others too? Do you enjoy ONLY having sex with one woman? If not, why are you in a relationship?

To me marriage/relationships are just people being lazy and giving up wanting to have fun. What do you guys think? Will marriage die out or will everyone stay pussified?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There are still plenty of people both men and women who would like to stick with one partner in marriage. I don't know where you get this impression that everyone has to live by a "sex in the city" ethos.

I have no problem with the idea of living it up in your youth. I'm all for that! But there's probably going to be a time in most peoples' lives where they decide to settle down.
 
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RSanders219 said:
There are still plenty of people both men and women who would like to stick with one partner in marriage. I don't know where you get this impression that everyone has to live by a "sex in the city" ethos.

I have no problem with the idea of living it up in your youth. I'm all for that! But there's probably going to be a time in most peoples' lives where they decide to settle down.
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But they don't have to! Think of how many people get tied into their wives and just get into a routine of "go to work come home go to work come home go to work come home go to work come home." I'd kill myself if I had to do this forever with ONE woman!

I just will never understand how people can live like that with no excitement.
 
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as long as there are wedding dresses and wedding cake...ther will be marriage, the divorce rate will continue to go up but there will always be weddings, women need them
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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what you dont understand is that theres more to life than getting laid. you cant ever pursue these things if you are thinking about where you are gonna get your next lay.

wanna be president? good luck getting elected unmarried.
get a promotion? whose going to get it.. the guy coming to work tired from partying too much the night before? or the stable married guy without distractions?

excitement? there are other things that excite you once you get older in life. im going to go out on a limb right now and assume that youre young. theres the excitement of starting a business and watching it grow, traveling, pursuing hobbies that you have more time for without sex on your mind, trying to build a legacy (through kids, or a foundation, a company, etc) etc.

sex is awesome, i wont deny it....but its not the only thing in life. once you get a little older and you've had your fill of ONS and your hormones slow down... youll see.

not to mention tax benefits, kids, sex is also almost ALWAYS better the second time than the first with a person, etc.
 
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