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Marriage does not benefit men

BadBoy89

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Marriage is for society’s best interest. It provides comfort, stability, and community for SOCIETY. Marriage is not a man’s best interest in 2021. To legally commit to one women, who is not a virgin, forever is idiotic. The man is not to have sex with any other woman, hotter or younger, and also has to pay a massive penalty to his current wife if and when she decides she wants out.

Remember men, all of society wants you to get MARRIED because it is good for SOCIETY. Society wants babies, growth, stability. This is why a single man, a man dating more than one woman, or being married and having a mistress, or not being tied down, is frowned upon. It is NOT stable for society. A single, free man is DANGEROUS for society. Society can not have that. So all it’s messages support Marriage and settling down.

What benefits a man in 2021? Companionship and conversation with older women, sex and babies with younger women, and not to commit to anything.

Be strong men.
 

Robert28

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I don’t want companionship with women though. Nor do I want friendship. I’ve been burned doing that twice in my life. Marriage isn’t the only thing women can burn your ass on, trust me.
 

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What benefits a man in 2021? Companionship and conversation with older women, sex and babies with younger women, and not to commit to anything
Nahh find your focused attention and persue it. Leave the older woman be and we need young alphas breeding so we have a hells chance at a future for this god dam country
 

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I used to value my marriage.... til my wife left me. Now... marriage is trash. Never again. No point really.... told my current GF if not getting married is a deal breaker... you better just leave now cuz it ain't gunna happen.. ever... again.

Fuk that shyt
 

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I don’t want companionship with women though. Nor do I want friendship. I’ve been burned doing that twice in my life. Marriage isn’t the only thing women can burn your ass on, trust me.
Don't accept friendship with a woman unless you want to hang out with her and her boyfriend.
 

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Ideally i would have a co parenting Scenario to raise my children, and just date different girls throughout the week while spending weekends with my kids.

If i ever win the lotto, it will be high end escorts on weeknights
 

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Marriage is for society’s best interest. It provides comfort, stability, and community for SOCIETY. Marriage is not a man’s best interest in 2021. To legally commit to one women, who is not a virgin, forever is idiotic. The man is not to have sex with any other woman, hotter or younger, and also has to pay a massive penalty to his current wife if and when she decides she wants out.

Remember men, all of society wants you to get MARRIED because it is good for SOCIETY. Society wants babies, growth, stability. This is why a single man, a man dating more than one woman, or being married and having a mistress, or not being tied down, is frowned upon. It is NOT stable for society. A single, free man is DANGEROUS for society. Society can not have that. So all it’s messages support Marriage and settling down.

What benefits a man in 2021? Companionship and conversation with older women, sex and babies with younger women, and not to commit to anything.

Be strong men.

maybe these ones have it right ??
 

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In our reality thats really insane to think about marriage.

I have a son with a woman I fcked in a party... You don't have to be married with a woman so she can make your life a hell.

A man and woman could live well together, if there is a truly genuine desire and awareness of what they wanna build together. But that would not require to get married as society says. Anyways, this is almost impossible to achieve IMO.
 

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I've never been married and never will. I'm over 45. Pure bliss and freedom to do whatever whenever and bank major $ while running my own business. I "date" women much younger on occasion for s*x and fun.

Was on a "legit" first date back in March. Halfway through the women, who looked much better in her pics, says "I kept looking at your profile wondering what is wrong with you. Never married, no kids, what's wrong with this guy?" I just looked at her laughed out loud. I probably said something curt back to her. A few minutes later she's telling me she's only separated from her husband, so technically still married, but stringing him along and has been for 5 years. She also has a rich boyfriend in Taos, NM she's been seeing for years and she's in a relationship that's off and on again because "we can't seem to live without each other." Has a kid from husband too. And she asks what's wrong with me...LOL. Needless to say, a quick departure on my end and no second date.

I'd rather hang out with my Doberman, work on my goals, screw young women, and make bank than waste time with b*tches like this.
 

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Marriage is for society’s best interest. It provides comfort, stability, and community for SOCIETY. Marriage is not a man’s best interest in 2021. To legally commit to one women, who is not a virgin, forever is idiotic. The man is not to have sex with any other woman, hotter or younger, and also has to pay a massive penalty to his current wife if and when she decides she wants out.

Remember men, all of society wants you to get MARRIED because it is good for SOCIETY. Society wants babies, growth, stability. This is why a single man, a man dating more than one woman, or being married and having a mistress, or not being tied down, is frowned upon. It is NOT stable for society. A single, free man is DANGEROUS for society. Society can not have that. So all it’s messages support Marriage and settling down.

What benefits a man in 2021? Companionship and conversation with older women, sex and babies with younger women, and not to commit to anything.

Be strong men.
No sir. Babies out of wedlock is idiotic. Marriage is for raising a family. But hey if you want to fvck hoes and get money for the next 50 years and die alone with no legacy- go for it.
 

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please elaborate briefly
If sex is off the table then spending time with me is off the table. I’m not putting myself in a position to be used and abused, and that’s what friendships with women offer. It’s a dangerous place to put yourself in.
 

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No sir. Babies out of wedlock is idiotic. Marriage is for raising a family. But hey if you want to fvck hoes and get money for the next 50 years and die alone with no legacy- go for it.
Because it’s good for society. Back when Kings has 5 wives and 10 mistresses. They didn’t settle down with ONE women forever and forever.

What legacy? What if the kid turns out to be gay? Or a criminal? Or a drug dealer? Or disowns you?

If you want to be known for “Raising a family” at your funeral, go for it. Just know your wife will likely empty your bank account and f*ck the usher in the bathroom while they are giving the eulogy.
 

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https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health
Scientists evaluated 3,682 adults over a 10-year period. Even after taking major cardiovascular risk factors such as age, body fat, smoking, blood pressure, diabetes, and cholesterol into account, married men had a 46% lower rate of death than unmarried men.
And yet this article says staying single can help you live longer.

 

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OP, we get it. You’re afraid and jilted.

Because it’s good for society. Back when Kings has 5 wives and 10 mistresses. They didn’t settle down with ONE women forever and forever.
False choice fallacy. If you want to have mistresses there are options to do that. The primary reason for marriage is raising a family.

What legacy? What if the kid turns out to be gay? Or a criminal? Or a drug dealer? Or disowns you?
The kid can also be President or a billionaire. It’s a father’s job to be a father; that means raising them to be worth a damn.

If you want to be known for “Raising a family” at your funeral, go for it.
If you want to run through hoez for the next 50 years there won’t even be anyone at your funeral. No one will know or care when you die alone in your house.

Just know your wife will likely empty your bank account and f*ck the usher in the bathroom while they are giving the eulogy.
She can’t empty the account; she gets half. You sound bitter my guy.

And yet this article says staying single can help you live longer.
The article is wrong. Married men live longer.
 

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All cages feel safe. Ships are safe in the harbour, but that's not what ships are for. Freedom trumps everything.
 
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