"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm new to these boards I Recently got married and I will tell you guys it's not that bad but. How do I remain in control. I told my wife that once in a while I like to view porn. She doesn't like it she's tried to contol me since before we started dating. I don't mind not looking at porn but she doen't want me to look at certain videos or talk to female friends I have she doesn't even allow me to read magazines I used to recieve (stuff). I understand that she may feel inadquete but she knows she's hot stuff. She knows I want to only be with her

I believe she's the women every man on sosuave wanted faithfull loving but. She's crazy what would you guys do. All I want her to know is that I want to be given the option to do anything not actually do? Help me her
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Simple. Stop looking at porn. LOL
 
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DO what you want tell her you won't be happy if you are controlled. You have to be able to do the things you like to do. It doesn't not mean you love her less and would not cross the line into a state where trust is lost. Porn and Maxim is not breaking trust.
 
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I won't get into a long analysis here...so let me just say this - would you like her to view other mens' penises?? No? I didn't think so! It's not about control - it's about respect!! Respect your wife!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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zumachakazuma said:
I'm new to these boards I Recently got married and I will tell you guys it's not that bad but. How do I remain in control. I told my wife that once in a while I like to view porn. She doesn't like it she's tried to contol me since before we started dating. I don't mind not looking at porn but she doen't want me to look at certain videos or talk to female friends I have she doesn't even allow me to read magazines I used to recieve (stuff). I understand that she may feel inadquete but she knows she's hot stuff. She knows I want to only be with her

I believe she's the women every man on sosuave wanted faithfull loving but. She's crazy what would you guys do. All I want her to know is that I want to be given the option to do anything not actually do? Help me her
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seriously its freaks like you that are turning the very few good women out there to despise the very few good men like us!:(
 
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zumachakazuma said:
I'm new to these boards I Recently got married and I will tell you guys it's not that bad but. How do I remain in control. I told my wife that once in a while I like to view porn. She doesn't like it she's tried to contol me since before we started dating. I don't mind not looking at porn but she doen't want me to look at certain videos or talk to female friends I have she doesn't even allow me to read magazines I used to recieve (stuff). I understand that she may feel inadquete but she knows she's hot stuff. She knows I want to only be with her

I believe she's the women every man on sosuave wanted faithful loving but. She's crazy what would you guys do. All I want her to know is that I want to be given the option to do anything not actually do? Help me her
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Why did you marry this woman? She doesn't respect your porn watching or female friends and you believe that she feels inadequate and you believe that guys in this forum would want a woman like her. This seems really strange.
 
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zumachakazuma said:
she doen't want me to look at certain videos or talk to female friends I have she doesn't even allow me to read magazines I used to recieve (stuff). I understand that she may feel inadquete but she knows she's hot stuff. She knows I want to only be with her

I believe she's the women every man on sosuave wanted faithfull loving but. She's crazy what would you guys do. All I want her to know is that I want to be given the option to do anything not actually do? Help me her
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She controls the frame of your relationship. How old are you?
 
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You knew exactly what she was like BEFORE you started dating yet you still married her?...

Divorce and quick!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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zumachakazuma said:
I'm new to these boards I Recently got married and I will tell you guys it's not that bad but. How do I remain in control. I told my wife that once in a while I like to view porn. She doesn't like it she's tried to contol me since before we started dating. I don't mind not looking at porn but she doen't want me to look at certain videos or talk to female friends I have she doesn't even allow me to read magazines I used to recieve (stuff). I understand that she may feel inadquete but she knows she's hot stuff. She knows I want to only be with her

I believe she's the women every man on sosuave wanted faithfull loving but. She's crazy what would you guys do. All I want her to know is that I want to be given the option to do anything not actually do? Help me her
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Dude, don't be a chump. The controlling crap gets worse if ya don't put your foot down, your bound to get walked on. Do just like Don Juan would and turn the table on her. Throw something smooth at her that basically says if you had more romantic hot sex with her, you wouldn't have any other desire to view porn. See if she's up for the challenge.
 
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Last Man Standing said:
I won't get into a long analysis here...so let me just say this - would you like her to view other mens' penises?? No? I didn't think so! It's not about control - it's about respect!! Respect your wife!!
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I agree with this.

Also, why do you need to watch porn when you got your wife? If you do have to watch porn do it when she isn't home so she doesn't know. Maybe, you need to communicate more with her about your female friends too...
 
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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
I agree with this.

Also, why do you need to watch porn when you got your wife? If you do have to watch porn do it when she isn't home so she doesn't know. Maybe, you need to communicate more with her about your female friends too...
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LMS right as always. A man that has a wife and still watches porn either
1. has some issues
2. has a wife that won't give him nuff sex so he makes up for it by watching porn
3. has been married a long time and is at the point where he hates his wife/wife is not what she was when first married.

You said you were recently married so you're wife is still good looking (at least to you), so you either have issues or you are not having nuff love with the wife.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I don't think the porn is the major issue here, it's kinda iffy. The red flag to me is that she doesn't trust you enough to "let you" talk to your female friends or read Maxim. Do you try to control her? Who wears the pants in this relationship?
 
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Last Man Standing said:
I won't get into a long analysis here...so let me just say this - would you like her to view other mens' penises?? No? I didn't think so! It's not about control - it's about respect!! Respect your wife!!
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LMS is not all about women bashing :whistle:
 
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Where is the Original poster?

Where is the original poster. It is very annoying for people to post and don't follow-up. Probably thinking "these people just want to dismantle my marriage. I'm out of here." Check-out his posts... one, uno, eins,un,Yi. This is why I propose " at least five posts/comments before thread." Which simply implies for an individual to create a New Thread, he/she must post at least five times in existing threads. The minimizes "unresponsive thread starters" while at the same time prevents spammers from posting unnecessarily.
 
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