Marooned

[Alen-Delon]

well, i was taking to this girl couple of days ago, and she told some interesting stuff. Well she has Bf and she told me that she wanted some guy advice on how to brake up with him. She also told that she cared for him a lot that he is one of the greatest guys she's ever met, that hes great in bed. But one thing she wanted the most is for this guy to care for her, Care ? hmmm well she explained, she said that one thing that All/most girl want from a guy is attention, for a girl to be happy with her Bf and not look at other guys, she wants him to show that he cares, by telling her how he feels, and doing lil things like giving her flowers just for no reason just because he loves/likes her. and also lil things such as concern but not jelousy. just to keep in mind this girl is 23 years old, studying on psychology major. Well she also said that one of the biggest turn offs in realtionships is when guy's act like they dont care or in general when guy acts like hes careless. most girl's are willing to do anything for the guy they love, that most of us dont relize how much girls put up with when dating, that only thing they want in return for a guy to take care of his lady like a real man and not act all fake, like he doesnt care about things and by not doing things that would make her happy, such as occasioanl gifts, or a romantic dinner, etc.... she also added that majority of girls cheat because, they dont feel the same affection anymore, guy doesnt care that much or just is cold towards everything. And when girls do cheat is because that new guy figure shows much of interest and care in the beggining and most of the girls fall for it... After that i dont remmaber too much because by the time she got there i already had 3 long islands and bottle of beer...


Cheers

 

[Chazz]

Don't listen to what girls say.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

you have to show you care, just not too frequently, as for attention yes girls love attention, but if you give them a lot of attention they will not like you because they can get as much attention from you as they want. They will like you if they have ot chase you for attention. obviously in a LTR things change slightly.

 

[ShortTimer]

When she was done b!tching did you slam her in the ass?

 

[Six-String Samurai]

There's a difference between the methods one might use to GET a girl and the methods one might use to KEEP a girl. 'Nuff said.

 

[Alen-Delon]

i just want to share something from womens perspective. ofcourse everybody is different.

 

[squirrels]

See this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=57170