"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dante420

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I'm just curious to know if some people on here use marijuana to as a tactic for picking girls up?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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believe it or not, instead of using alcohol i prefer marijuana.... Why? Because I noticed it puts my creativity through the roof and I do things I usually never do :) Give it a try and tell us how it went!
 

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eatgel said:
believe it or not, instead of using alcohol i prefer marijuana.... Why? Because I noticed it puts my creativity through the roof and I do things I usually never do :) Give it a try and tell us how it went!

Well I'm kind of on the lock down right now. Just wondering how you do it? What kind of tactics do you employ.
 

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sometimes I'll grind it into a fine powder and sprinkle it in her drink when she isn't looking.
 

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ahahaha dbot, that **** is so funny! by the way dante just one random question.. you are not from colorado are you? Well anyways when you smoke marijuana and you get into that " STATE " then everything goes well, its smooth, its in rhythm... but don't try to force it. If you don't get into that state or feel little anxious or nervous then don't even try, its almost going to be close to a bad trip LOL!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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frisco

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More times then not people will sterotype the life style of it.. just depends on the girl and if your eyes are bloodshot ha..
 

Dante420

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frisco said:
More times then not people will sterotype the life style of it.. just depends on the girl and if your eyes are bloodshot ha..
So how do you people initiate a smoking session with a newly met girl?
 

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If you live in a dorm, when girls are stumbling home drunk from the bars after last call is a really good time to just blurt out, "Hey! Do you wanna go get high?" I got laid several times off that in college.
 

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Dante420 said:
I'm just curious to know if some people on here use marijuana to as a tactic for picking girls up?
Please tell me your joking.

James Bond: Perhaps we could do dinner tomorrow night at my place. Then if the mood strikes us we could open a bottle of champagne and do some marijuana."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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haha no way. The last thing I wanna do is talk to chicks when I'm high.

Infact I hate it when a girl calls up or wants to do something while I am high. I just talk about strange things and laugh at stupid things, and its really obvious I am ****ed.

It's only good when the girl actually wants to sesh up also. High sex = the best
 

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Never been high nor do i plan on doing it to get chicks.

If you need to get high to pull chicks than i feel sorry for you.
 
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