"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Marijuana.....

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I was just wondering if smoking a little reefer everyonce in a while is as bad as people say it is. I mean it makes you feel good and all and should'nt that be a positive thing? I have heard people my whole life say how bad drugs are and how they ruin lives and such. And I've listened to them too.

I don't smoke pot...but I was wondering if their is potential hazards in smoking it every so often. Just to kinda relax on the weekends and stuff like that. I know some girls like to smoke it.

Also, if one was to smoke, how long would it take to get it out of his/her system. Like if they wanted to get a job and they had to pass a piss test??
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i smoke it with buddies once and a while....sometimes few times a month...sometime few a week..sometimes once every few months. just dont start smoking it everyday, it can mess you up. i forget how long it stays in the system, i think it was a few weeks..i duno. google it, thats how i found out :D
 

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"If you smoke it occasionally it will remain in your system for up to 10 days. If you smoke marijuana on a regular basis it will stay in your system for as long as 45 days, and if you smoke marijuana at a constant pace, it can stay in the body for 90 days"

Taken from http://www.marijuanapassion.com/How-Long-Does-Marijuana-Stay-In-Your-System.html

A little bit now and then never really hurt. But if it becoems frequent, it can screw up your life.
 

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Not as bad as cigarettes at least. When you smoke marijuana, it is just the marijuana plant. Cigarettes is a couple hundred or thousand chemicals. Every now and then can't hurt that much.
 

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i have a friend who is now 39. she got high as a kid and still does.
2 or 3 years ago she got really sick and got pnumeonia. after that, her dr saw that she has early signs of emphazemia(spelling?) and now she has to use an asthma inhaler when she has these attacks. there is alot of scarring in her lungs due to the heavy amount of pot smoking in her lifetime. she told everyone she stopped smoking the stuff. come to find out, she has been secretly doing it up to this day. what kind of message is she sending to her children?

sure habbits are hard to break, but come on, there comes a time to put down things that are illegal.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If pot caused any ailment, then there would be an excess of people with that ailment in Jamaica and Belize, where there are the highest percentage of pot smokers. But those people are fine. They're not getting disproportional rates of cancer, respiratory ailments, or schizophrenia. Recent research about marijuana said that it has no link to cancer:
http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/healthnews.php?newsid=44039
 

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im sure if you are prone to get respiratory things in the first place, that smoking anything isnt going to help your condition.
however i have heard that people use pot all the time for coping with the pain of cancer, so the high could mask the fact that you are developing cancer until you find out one day at a check out.


i wonder if there are people that are allergic to pot.( silly i know ) sure its natural, but so many people are allergic to hay and grass and pollen and cedar trees and they are natural too.
 

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For some people, smoking pot will give them anxiety attacks and make them freak out, similar to a bad trip on acid.

Curiously, despite every state charging people for dui regarding pot, there was one British study that said it actually makes people slightly safer drivers than when they are sober. Stoned drivers tend to drive much more slowly and be more worried about their driving.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Curiously, despite every state charging people for dui regarding pot, there was one British study that said it actually makes people slightly safer drivers than when they are sober. Stoned drivers tend to drive much more slowly and be more worried about their driving.
Unfortunately, it gets a bit balanced out by slower reactions, inevitable hallucinations and all that.

A very interesting reference you bought up though. Something for the mind to have a good chew over.
 

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penkitten said:
i wonder if there are people that are allergic to pot.( silly i know ) sure its natural, but so many people are allergic to hay and grass and pollen and cedar trees and they are natural too.
A friend of mine is allergic to hemp, so I'd think there would be people allergic to pot
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KillaCam said:
Unfortunately, it gets a bit balanced out by slower reactions, inevitable hallucinations and all that.

A very interesting reference you bought up though. Something for the mind to have a good chew over.
Not enough empirical evidence to draw a conclusion, I'm afraid.
 

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reyalp said:
Not enough empirical evidence to draw a conclusion, I'm afraid.
Indeed.

Nevertheless, i'm more than..err..happy, to provide myself as a test subject for the studies of Marijuana effects. For the sake of research of course ;)
 

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It's still not good for you so why take the risk? Plus it's expensive as hell!
 

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i smoke every day, have been for 2 yrs. i have a 3.75 gpa in college am very fit and have never been in a car accident while high. pot will affect people differently, if you smoke it it wont magically get you high 2 days later but you might feel a little different. one thing it probably will do if one isnt responsible with it is make you less interested in other activities and you can get psychologically addicted, withdrawl just makes you wanna smoke, no physical pain( withdrawl minor, ends a few days later). i personally know many intelligent responsible people whom smoke it. for good unbiased info on drugs go to EROWID.COM ps not exp if home grown
 

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hey hey hey smoke weed everyday
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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typical said:
A friend of mine is allergic to hemp, so I'd think there would be people allergic to pot
my daughter is allergic to christmas trees.
well anyhow her dad gets high and she comes home sick and needing to either go to the er or have a breathing treatment.
i asked her dr if they could test to see if she were allergic to it so i could prove to her father yet another freggin reason he shouldnt be doing it anywhere near her or the place they live. the dr says there is no such test.
perhaps they cant test for something like that since they dont keep a stash there.
needless to say, i dont want her near it for tons of other reasons but i think she is allergic too.
 

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my daughter is allergic to christmas trees.
well anyhow her dad gets high and she comes home sick and needing to either go to the er or have a breathing treatment.
i asked her dr if they could test to see if she were allergic to it so i could prove to her father yet another freggin reason he shouldnt be doing it anywhere near her or the place they live. the dr says there is no such test.
perhaps they cant test for something like that since they dont keep a stash there.
needless to say, i dont want her near it for tons of other reasons but i think she is allergic too.
Well basically what they do in allergy tests is take a tiny bit of the substance and put it on a needle and poke you with it. If your skin bumps up, its an allergic reaction.

What you could try is rubbing a little bit on her arm and see if it gets itchy or anything. However first you'd have to be possession of the substance which, from the sounds of it, doesn't seem very feasible.

If my (future) son/daughter had a reaction to it, and (I'm assuming this is a split custody thing) their mother smoked it and wouldn't stop to protect them from it I would call the police. I have nothing against smoking weed, but when it causes physical pain to others (especially your own blood) its time to stop.
 

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TheNewGuy said:
Well basically what they do in allergy tests is take a tiny bit of the substance and put it on a needle and poke you with it. If your skin bumps up, its an allergic reaction.

What you could try is rubbing a little bit on her arm and see if it gets itchy or anything. However first you'd have to be possession of the substance which, from the sounds of it, doesn't seem very feasible.

If my (future) son/daughter had a reaction to it, and (I'm assuming this is a split custody thing) their mother smoked it and wouldn't stop to protect them from it I would call the police. I have nothing against smoking weed, but when it causes physical pain to others (especially your own blood) its time to stop.
i did and child protective services however they do not have enough to go on to do anything. my kids are sent into their bedrooms while he and his new wife smoke it with whoever and my kids never see it just smell it. she says "daddy was smoking the cigerrettes that smell like christmas trees."
 

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her dad gets high and she comes home sick and needing to either go to the er or have a breathing treatment.

I bet he smokes cigarettes, too, right? Pot smokers typically shut the windows and doors to not leak out their illegal smells, but then they usually light up a cigarette, too. Your daughter might be suffering from second-hand tobacco smoke much more than the pot smoke. If pot were bad for people, it would have killed someone by now, but afaik that has never happened.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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