"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Chronic use of large amounts of any substance that is affecting neural transmission will most likely invoke adaptive changes and lead to the reorganization of neural networks, and possibly affect brain structures."

Any substance...like anti-depressant meds. If they brain-scanned people on anti-depressants for ten years, I bet their brains would look different, too. The tiny sample size and way that the researchers assume proof they are right from some minor correlations lead me to believe that they wanted to find what they were looking for. That's how to keep bringing in the grant money for more research - find some proof that drugs are bad, mm'kay? Any scientist who can find something unhealthy about pot had distinguished himself from his peers, and any government will be happy to throw grant money at him.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My Name is Nobody said:
Sure it will, if you get caught with it.
Someone who smokes before bed would not understand. When it consumes your life like any other drug addiction, you have a cough all the time, and you're spending 25 bucks a day, yeah it can be a problem, even without Johhny Law getting involved. Some people have self control with some drugs, some don't. The only drug I have had a problem with is weed, even after being prescribed pain pills for 4 surgeries, when they run out I just forget about them. It's harder for me to let go of MJ and get out of the daily routine.
 

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As it currently stands, all marijuana-related research must focus on marijuana's dangers, or else the researchers will not get funding. The US Supreme Court ruled that marijuana supporters ought not press the issue through litigation but through FDA approved research, which is fair enough—focus on persuading people with evidence. But even though the FDA does approve pro-marijuana research, researchers must get their marijuana through the National Institute on Drug Abuse, whose mission statement is to only research negative effects of drugs. The sole supplier of the weed is the University of Mississippi, which supplies weed with such low potency that it does not meet FDA requirements! The FDA will not change the classification of marijuana without discretion of the DEA, if I'm not mistaken, and the DEA will not budge without discretion of the FDA, if I'm not mistaken. I'm hopeful that when I'm 80 years old...
 

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there is one and only one universal truth about pot: if you get a girl high, you're set.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Inside Man said:
nah. I got two hot girls high for the first time and they didn't really like it.

Yeah man, it only works if the girl is familiar with weed and if she already knows she likes the effects. I usually find out if a girl likes to smoke weed the first few times I talk to her. If she likes it? I call my buddy and get a fat bag and get her over to smoke some.

If it's their first time it doesn't work as well.
 

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Yeah I remember when my friends first smoked me out, I hated them for it. I was just sitting on the couch for 4 hours thinking to myself all scared "why the fvck do people like this sh1t." Eventually I started to adapt to its effects and seldomly enjoy it.
 
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Yeah I remember when my friends first smoked me out, I hated them for it. I was just sitting on the couch for 4 hours thinking to myself all scared "why the fvck do people like this sh1t." Eventually I started to adapt to its effects and seldomly enjoy it.

You are lucky. You are in Cali and I hear you can get Weed in vending machines.

I hear you can go to the doc and complain of migraines, or major insomnia, and get a prescription.

Any truth to that? Or it has to be a serious illness?
 

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Never heard stories of that before but I do know of a couple of people that have prescribed marijuana, not sure of their illnesses though.
 
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