"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Marathon runner Vs Muscle gain

RunnerDJ

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Hey guys,
Short introduction am 30 , recently out of LTR , I was blue pill most of my life and recently just started my transformation.

Now my dilemma is I love running my whole life , finished first marathon when I was 24 , and got back to serious running after breakup.

But I made new goal for gaining muscle and getting in shape. I LOVE running , its my passion but I found it would kill my chances for gaining muscle.

So this is the dilemma , something I love vs something that would get me in good shape and get attention. I prefer doing my own thing and don't do something just to get girls, would appreciate any input
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wbeatty

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have you considered running shorter marathons or being a sprinter instead?

those guys dont look starved at all
Great shout on switching to sprinting. You'll miss the endorphins from long distance running but get a new different "sprinter's high" which causes a large release of androgens. Steady state cardio has also been shown to increase cortisol much more.

Used to be long distance and wouldn't go back to it now I've focused on weight lifting / sprinting. Once your free testosterone goes up it gives you a huge confidence boost and a feeling of being on top of the world.

Don't have to be hugely muscle bound but even just being above average has a huge affect on the way that women perceive you.
 
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