"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Map Easiness of Girls by Country

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Atom Smasher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2008
Messages
8,658
Reaction score
6,618
Age
69
Location
The 7th Dimension
Poor Long Island, they were completely left out of the ratings.
 

Atom Smasher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2008
Messages
8,658
Reaction score
6,618
Age
69
Location
The 7th Dimension
The map doesn't look all that accurate to me, but perhaps the little Italian bambinos are good in bed but not prolific in bedding down with every lothario that walks by. Did I actually say "lothario"?! I didn't even know I knew that word...

They seem to be very family-oriented. The Italian girls I've ever known (including the one I'm seeing right now) seem to need a commitment from a man before giving it up. I may be entirely wrong and speaking only from my own experience... not sure.
 
Top