"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ArcBound said:
Sure some women suck but jesus christ look at this thread.

You all remind me of how women get together to talk about just how horrible men are and how most men out there suck. The only thing is you guys are the male versions lol.
If you cannot see the distinction between taking pity on a group as a whole versus complaining about how horrible they are as a whole, I'm sure this posted is wasted on you personally. What you describe about women complaining about men is known to pertain specifically to how horrible men are as a judgment of character as well as how men make life horrible for women with their words and actions.

The TS is referring to how women's outlook on life makes life miserable for THEMSELVES, and he is offering a different perspective than what we are used to hearing that holds tremendous truth as well. If anything, he is empathizing with women in general, which is the complete opposite of what you are trying to compare, the judging of men that women do.

Peace out biatch.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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soshdog said:
If you cannot see the distinction between taking pity on a group as a whole versus complaining about how horrible they are as a whole, I'm sure this posted is wasted on you personally. What you describe about women complaining about men is known to pertain specifically to how horrible men are as a judgment of character as well as how men make life horrible for women with their words and actions.

The TS is referring to how women's outlook on life makes life miserable for THEMSELVES, and he is offering a different perspective than what we are used to hearing that holds tremendous truth as well. If anything, he is empathizing with women in general, which is the complete opposite of what you are trying to compare, the judging of men that women do.

Peace out biatch.
Last time I checked calling women as a whole cvnts, walking vaginas and so on etc. like over half the posts in this thread are, are not indicative of pity. But nice try.

Fact of the matter is this is turning into another circle jerk of guys high-fiving and rationalizing that women have oh so horrible and meaningless lives. There are hamsters that spin, but it spins in men and women...
 

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My bad. We are having a miscommunication. I totally agree that comments such as walking vaginas and cnts is lame, and I'm almost sure that guys that make comments like this are extremely lame with women and have a lot of growing up to do. I typically automatically ignore comments like these and so they didn't even register, because the comments are worthless. But don't let these comments take away from the spirit of what the TS was trying to say.

I was solely referring to the points the TS made, not the stupid comments that douchebags make (and you are right, they sound like the male version of chicks who are complaining.) I think if you just read the TS opening post and ignore the following stupid comments, you will recognize there is a lot of truth there.
 

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soshdog said:
My bad. We are having a miscommunication. I totally agree that comments such as walking vaginas and cnts is lame, and I'm almost sure that guys that make comments like this are extremely lame with women and have a lot of growing up to do. I typically automatically ignore comments like these and so they didn't even register, because the comments are worthless. But don't let these comments take away from the spirit of what the TS was trying to say.

I was solely referring to the points the TS made, not the stupid comments that douchebags make (and you are right, they sound like the male version of chicks who are complaining.) I think if you just read the TS opening post and ignore the following stupid comments, you will recognize there is a lot of truth there.
Alright I guess I can agree with that.
 

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Many guys here never cease to amaze me. If I didn´t believe there are great women out there I wouldn´t be here.

A lot of guys hate women, because they think they have it easy. But many many women live in constant depression, and that´s true, partly because their biggest goal is to get married and have a Disney marriage... if you don´t know this, you still have a lot to learn...

To finish the argument "but we are on an internet forum and they are enjoying life" lol. They might be watching tv at the moment (wich I don´t), sosuave takes 10-15 minutes a day, and no one should be ashamed to search and read about self-improvement. The problem with the world is that most people think they don´t need to improve, because they are sooo good. But hey they wanna change the world lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I"m not miserable, I practice shooting and karate, hunt, fish, have a ball, actually. I've got a fine Filipina lady, nearly 40 years younger than I. I told her from the start, it's for 5 years, then she has to find a guy her own age, have her kids, etc. I had a vasectomy many years ago. She aint happy about divorcing, but I love to train women, and this one is nearly as good a shottist and karateka as I can make her, so it will soon be time to get another one.
 
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