"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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JdelaSilviera

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I write this, not because it is of any particular use for your game, although it may help you with the inner part of it.

There is a general view on the forum, that most women have great lives. How great it is, to be all social, having guys chasing them, wanting to date you every time, being treated like princesses everywhere they go, being able to have sex anytime etc.. This creates bitterness towards them...

Well, in these days I honestly do pitty women. I know many of them that are in constant depression....

Although men are seen as sexual predators, who only think in sex, this is totally not true. Most of males have a pretty wide range of interests and areas of expertise. We all see this on a regular basis, and this is specially more noticable in older adults, when you have a dinner/lunch etc. with the family, Sundays, Christmas and similar days, you look at your uncles, grandfathers and they all have great stimulant discussions, the discussions are always enriching, fun to have, there are always dozens of laughs cause we man are brilliant etc...

You look at the female side, and the discussions are almost depressing and boring, they talk about shopping, diets, kids, gossip about other people. In summary nothing of worth.

Women greatest goal in life is to marry and have kids , they are so obsessed with it, that they take pictures of themselves while teenagers with a ball below their shirt.

Women start behaving as adults pretty much sooner, than guys, they do almost everything earlier including obviously, sex with older guys. That´s why they become boring so early, and that´s why they need a man to make them laugh... cause they´re life is depressing.

I think that those who miss years from their childhood, will be handicapped for life. Many men are seen as imature, but it is so healthy to be a bit imature, it´s always good to carry on with you the child you once were.

In general people who want to do everything earlier, are the first to lose fascination with life.
And women are like that... Like a rich kid who doesn´t value the pool and tennis court he has at home they start getting bored with dating and sex, because it´s pretty much well known from a very early age, they change boyfriends as you change shirt, always trying to look someone and better, and always ending up frustrated as hell. Their need for attention, and constantly emotional support from a (new) guy shows unhappiness, what they don´t realize is that marriage won´t b much different.... These girls that are always changing boyfriends are the most miserable, they don´t realize that their relationship is pretty much meaningless, how meaningful it is when you say to 10 guys "you are the man of my life i love you so much".

Then they lose their beauty pretty early, and because they realize that they are also much more worried with marriage, and try to settle sooner than guys. They need to get someone while they are decently looking, because as the years pass by they won´t be able to get a better man, since looks are pretty much all they have to offer.

Women put such unrealistic expectations on relationships, that they always come off as disappointed, and when the relationships fail, they can count with their ignorant friends, who speak bad about them behind their back, and who are inspired by tv shows like sex and the city....

I´m glad I´m not a woman...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Me too.

One of my sister's best friends is in great shape, hot as hell, early 30's and she is miserable as can be most of the time. She doesn't show it, but it is internalized as my sister said. She is also super low self-esteem.

She'd like the husband/kids package, is not a gold digger.
She always ends up with the wrong guy. Either picks the wrong one and breaks up with him later or picks a good one and they ditch her after a year.

She's been on this cycle for a long time.

I feel bad for her and wish we had more in common, I'd snatch her up in a minute.
 

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This is from a CDC report:

Other findings from the report provide a clearer picture of which Americans are taking antidepressants. Females are more than 2.5 times as likely to take the drugs as males, with nearly a quarter of all women aged 40-59 taking antidepressants

http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/databriefs/db76.htm
 

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Lol, I dated a girl a few months ago just like this. She was supposed to get married to a guy who had all ready had a child and he was 28. She was only 23 at the time and did not have a kid..

23 years old.. and being a step mom. LIVE A LITTLE. Go to college, get an education, travel the world.. There are so many things you only get a given amount of time to do if you eventually want to settle down and start a family.

This girl was at least an 8 too lol. The guy was NOT good looking and did NOT have an education/good paying career either.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'd like to fully agree with the title of this thread but just add the word "cvnts" after it. Then I think it's 100% accurate.
 

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JdelaSilviera said:
I´m glad I´m not a woman...

Amen, brother. I feel like, at the age of 22, that my life hasn't even kicked into full gear yet. I know my best years are ahead of me and I'm excited about what lies ahead. The best part is that the thing(s) that excite me have nothing to do with women and/or dating............well, ok, maybe they do a little bit :whistle:
 

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Alex DeLarge said:
Lol, I dated a girl a few months ago just like this. She was supposed to get married to a guy who had all ready had a child and he was 28. She was only 23 at the time and did not have a kid..

23 years old.. and being a step mom. LIVE A LITTLE. Go to college, get an education, travel the world.. There are so many things you only get a given amount of time to do if you eventually want to settle down and start a family.

This girl was at least an 8 too lol. The guy was NOT good looking and did NOT have an education/good paying career either.

I know someone just like that, except she's 28, the guy with the kids is 49 and looks like Woody Allen.

They live together now....he doesn't know it, but she fvcked some stranger while she was on vacation with her gal pals.

I had a crack at getting with her some time ago....glad I passed.
 

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This is why you should understand the keys to a good life and share them... we enjoy cheering them up, don't we? Joy shared is joy multipled. Don't you love seeing girls wave and walk away with that ear-to-ear grin... the one that gets their friends to squeal "what happened? Tell me everything!" as soon as they see each other?

You might want to watch the movie L'Arnacoeur... it's about a DJ that makes his living seducing unhappy girls out of bad relationships to set them free. Then of course he goes and gets his heart broken like a chump. ha ha
 

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Men dream about doing big things in life and women usually are happy with things how they are, women seem to not think about ruling the world like most men do
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Most of guys I know aren't so ambitious. They all seem traped in their own tiny worlds. And ambition...It's crucial.
 

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I think this very thread is miserable. The lack of respect for human beings is astonishing in here.

Come on boy, you are writing in a forum how cool it is to be a guy and how ****ed up it is to be a girl...seriously you think I'm gonna buy that? Oh yeah since you have such a cool life you try to upgrade your value with a thread like that :rolleyes:

Everybody is miserable. People talk about crap going on in their life all the time. The only reason why your dad's and uncles' conversations were "soo cool" is because guys are too proud and their egos are too big for them to seriously talk about their problems and feelings. Women like to talk about how miserable they are, and guys like to hide it.
If only our lives would be as cool as we pretend on facebook.

Stop whining.
 

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Ilboy said:
I think this very thread is miserable. The lack of respect for human beings is astonishing in here.

Come on boy, you are writing in a forum how cool it is to be a guy and how ****ed up it is to be a girl...seriously you think I'm gonna buy that? Oh yeah since you have such a cool life you try to upgrade your value with a thread like that :rolleyes:

Everybody is miserable. People talk about crap going on in their life all the time. The only reason why your dad's and uncles' conversations were "soo cool" is because guys are too proud and their egos are too big for them to seriously talk about their problems and feelings. Women like to talk about how miserable they are, and guys like to hide it.
If only our lives would be as cool as we pretend on facebook.

Stop whining.
http://heartiste.files.wordpress.com/2011/11/hamster-wheel_o_gifsoup-com1.gif?w=320&h=240
Spin hamster spin.
 

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JdelaSilviera said:
I write this, not because it is of any particular use for your game, although it may help you with the inner part of it.

There is a general view on the forum, that most women have great lives. How great it is, to be all social, having guys chasing them, wanting to date you every time, being treated like princesses everywhere they go, being able to have sex anytime etc.. This creates bitterness towards them...

Well, in these days I honestly do pitty women. I know many of them that are in constant depression....

Although men are seen as sexual predators, who only think in sex, this is totally not true. Most of males have a pretty wide range of interests and areas of expertise. We all see this on a regular basis, and this is specially more noticable in older adults, when you have a dinner/lunch etc. with the family, Sundays, Christmas and similar days, you look at your uncles, grandfathers and they all have great stimulant discussions, the discussions are always enriching, fun to have, there are always dozens of laughs cause we man are brilliant etc...

You look at the female side, and the discussions are almost depressing and boring, they talk about shopping, diets, kids, gossip about other people. In summary nothing of worth.

Women greatest goal in life is to marry and have kids , they are so obsessed with it, that they take pictures of themselves while teenagers with a ball below their shirt.

Women start behaving as adults pretty much sooner, than guys, they do almost everything earlier including obviously, sex with older guys. That´s why they become boring so early, and that´s why they need a man to make them laugh... cause they´re life is depressing.

I think that those who miss years from their childhood, will be handicapped for life. Many men are seen as imature, but it is so healthy to be a bit imature, it´s always good to carry on with you the child you once were.

In general people who want to do everything earlier, are the first to lose fascination with life.
And women are like that... Like a rich kid who doesn´t value the pool and tennis court he has at home they start getting bored with dating and sex, because it´s pretty much well known from a very early age, they change boyfriends as you change shirt, always trying to look someone and better, and always ending up frustrated as hell. Their need for attention, and constantly emotional support from a (new) guy shows unhappiness, what they don´t realize is that marriage won´t b much different.... These girls that are always changing boyfriends are the most miserable, they don´t realize that their relationship is pretty much meaningless, how meaningful it is when you say to 10 guys "you are the man of my life i love you so much".

Then they lose their beauty pretty early, and because they realize that they are also much more worried with marriage, and try to settle sooner than guys. They need to get someone while they are decently looking, because as the years pass by they won´t be able to get a better man, since looks are pretty much all they have to offer.

Women put such unrealistic expectations on relationships, that they always come off as disappointed, and when the relationships fail, they can count with their ignorant friends, who speak bad about them behind their back, and who are inspired by tv shows like sex and the city....

I´m glad I´m not a woman...
I agree with this 100%
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Many human beings seem miserable, including me, but that's because I've been trying to solve the Rubix Cube puzzle since I was seven and fifteen years later I still cannot solve it. :mad:
 

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Whatever gets you through the day I guess.

I disagree however. For the most part women don't sit around and talk about being smarter and more interesting than guys. We do sit around and talk about how we are more interesting and smarter than women. As a general rule, people who talk about it aren't doing it. And men aren't more interesting than women.

Perhaps our grandfathers and fathers were though. But back then women didn't have the opportunities to have full lives. They do now and, to a somewhat higher extent than men, they are. But most women are, like most men, not particularly interesting at first glance. You need to peel back the layers a little.
 

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FairShake said:
Whatever gets you through the day I guess.

I disagree however. For the most part women don't sit around and talk about being smarter and more interesting than guys. We do sit around and talk about how we are more interesting and smarter than women. As a general rule, people who talk about it aren't doing it. And men aren't more interesting than women.

Perhaps our grandfathers and fathers were though. But back then women didn't have the opportunities to have full lives. They do now and, to a somewhat higher extent than men, they are.

Exactly while women are out being social and having a life..we are on an internet forum *****ing about how it sucks to be women?

think about this for a second.....
 

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JdelaSilviera said:
Women greatest goal in life is to marry and have kids ,
I´m glad I´m not a woman...
Boom! Straight out of the 1700's!

As much as I enjoy being a man, this is just mean. Girls are cool too, man.
 

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Sure some women suck but jesus christ look at this thread.

You all remind me of how women get together to talk about just how horrible men are and how most men out there suck. The only thing is you guys are the male versions lol.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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