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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Not seeing how I violated that rule
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Okay, let's take a look at the whole picture...
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The main purpose of the forum is to give men advice on dating women. Most of the things that have been deleted have nothing to do with this topic. If it's off topic, it's subject to being deleted especially if it's controversial in nature. The two biggest offenders are religion and politics, and that has never changed from the day I joined this forum back in 2001.
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Now let's see what the purpose of this forum is supposed to be according to sosuave.com:
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Girl Problems?
If you have a girl problem (and who doesn't), please download and read The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating. It will solve 90% of your problems with women. If you are still confused about something, you can send me an email and I will try to help you out. Please keep your email short with just the most relevant details.
You can also post your question to the SoSuave Discussion Forum. Thousands of members hang out here and will be happy to give you their opinions. And some of these guys are very, very smart.
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The main purpose of the forum is to give men advice on dating women. Most of the things that have been deleted have nothing to do with this topic. If it's off topic, it's subject to being deleted especially if it's controversial in nature. The two biggest offenders are religion and politics, and that has never changed from the day I joined this forum back in 2001.
If you want to discuss either of those two topics, you're better off going to a different forum. If you want to discuss how to get your d1ck wet, this is the place to do it.
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