Manipulative Girlfriend?

[nan3109]

Analyze this ******** and let me know what you guys think about her. She told me she never "just" messed around with a guy , she either went all the way or nothing at all. She slept with 6 guys in her life and we've been together 8 months.

L: the only reason i would ask a guy with a girlfriend for his number, would be to go and party and get them to break up
L: we used to do that for fun.....
GH: would you do anything with the guy?
L: maybe - if i didn't like the girl
GH: hmm..
GH: i thought you "went all the way or didnt do anything at all" with the guys you've done stuff with
GH: interesting.....
L: back in the day that was fun
L: i never did
L: but lots of my friends did
GH: you never did what?
GH: omg
GH: your such a bad liar
L: **** you
L: we used to do that for fun.....
GH: would you do anything with the guy?
L: maybe - if i didn't like the girl
L: yeah - you think i'd do that **** now?
GH: so who is "i"
L: MAYBE - if i didn't like the girl
L: see the MAYBE
GH: but you said "we used to do that alot for fun"
L: are you always trying to catch me in a lie?
GH: just trying to learn about you
GH: sorry
L: it really pisses me off
GH: well..
L: it's getting so ****in old!

 

[nan3109]

BUMP, anyone!?

 

[Frank Zappa]

It took me three years of a relationship to learn this so I will help you now. Don't let her fool you, don't let good times, or good behavior fool you. Eventually they slip back into old habits. Once a liar always a liar... PEOPLE DON'T CHANGE or don't change very much... Especially women. I am sharing my experience and my three years with you. Don't waste your three years... The more and more you try and catch her in a lie, the more and more you will start to tear your relationship and drive wedges in it. Why bother either way... If it's going to work, why drive wedges. If you know who she really is, why stay with her? And I know the why because I did it for so long, but it really feels good afterwards... Don't let liars who try or are trying to change burden your life, it's not your problem. ~Zappa

 

[Frank Zappa]

Furthermore, be careful and aware... She will try and fool you, saying she's changed or how you're different. How she's over that phase and won't treat you that way... And maybe she won't, mine didn't the first three years... But my relationship ended just the same way all her other ones did with the same problems she claimed didn't exist anymore. If her telling you that she used to use guys makes you worry she'll do it to you... She probably will. It's just a matter of how long she can lie to herself about how good of a person she is. ~Zappa

 

[nan3109]

she pays for alot of stuff for me. shes prolly spent nearly half a grand on me. She told me she would use guys for money and for sex before.

and when i tell her i need to know about her past to learn if shes a good person, she just says shes changed and stuff and that shes in love with me and shes never had true love before.

shes running low on cash though. she had 1500 when she moved to college a month ago and now shes down to a few hundred.

do you guys really think girls cannot change?

 

[nan3109]

bumpp!

 

[chlywly]

Wow a girl that used to try to purposely break guys up how fun, you got yourself a great catch... Personaly I woudln't be caught dead near a chic like that, why on earth are you with her?