"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Manipulating female clients

CaptFinnBad

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 14, 2021
Messages
442
Reaction score
289
Age
42
I train dogs and walk them on the side.

Last week was hot. So being the responsible person I am I called all the shots of what I'm doing with dogs each working day.

Adjusting apportionments and protecting dogs from the heat was my priority.

This week I'm feeling a lil lazy , my bank balance is looking nice so don't want to do much this week.

Temperature has dropped so it's perfectly safe for dogs to be outside.

So i've been texting female clients on appointment day.

Give them the facts. Temperature outside, wind, overcast e.t.c. I'm happy for appointments to go ahead as normal but it's their call.

Basically saying i deem it safe to carry on as normal but deliberately put the decision of them.

Putting them in the divers seat and letting them call the shots has been breaking brains.

Panicked texts back where they can't make up their minds, flip flopping. cancelling, shorter appointments, e.t.c.

Bit manipulative of me, because I know they rely on me to make decisions for them and take away the responsibility/accountability from them. Got me my relaxed week though lol.
 
Last edited:

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Top