"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mandela's death

Scaramouche

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Dear Danzy,
Perhaps I spoke out of turn....If you tell me that I believe you....and am very glad to hear it...Apologies!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ballie57

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Dear DanZy,
"They haven't taken anyone's rifles away, if you have the licence; you can have the gun. The country is absolutely fine, for now at least"...So that is why a technologically savvy guy like Ballie,buys a glorified Daisy Air Gun for $500 to protect himself....Get real!
Absolutely true I have the original license of a Franchi 12 bore over and under shotgun and I will buy a Franchi side by side, when my mother dies and also a Taurus .32.

It is very difficult to get a license for a handgun - so that is why I have my C7 75 BB gun.
 

Ballie57

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I was there on Honeymoon with my wife and it was a perfectly safe place. It's now wrecked - I have not been to Coffee bay yet, But one day I will go again and maybe start another radio station.

Meduim transmitters are very easy to build. I have designed a 60 watt radio station using a 6L6GC tube with a OPA541AP IC modulator and I know valve technology - having designed valve amps as my core business.

I will start a pirate radio station in Swartberg
 

Ballie57

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I have met the great man in Port Saint Johns and he was a great man - the father of our nation
Not personally but his spirit was there - everyone knows that he was in jail. But his spirit was there. Everyone was talking about how a great man he was , and on the eve of his death, I was crying my eyes out and am still in morning.
and so is everyone in this country. My room mate knows how upset I am
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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