"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Managing to smile throughout the day?

dav27

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I see people who appear to be smiling all the time.. i went through about a month of doing this as well. But lately i've had a bit of a harder time and i just can't express my happy side so much.

I don't want to appear miserable and want to get the smile back. Has anyone got any tips.. beyond 'just be happy'? I'd imagine it's also down to chemicals in the brain.. any diet/supplement tips?

Cheers people.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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pua1989

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Fast forward 50-60 years, you are on your deathbed. You have never had a stronger desire to go back in time to this period. Those were the best years of your life.

You know what? I am giving you this opportunity right now. I have made you travel back in time. Everything is so great now; walking across the street, saying hello to people, having fun. It's impossible not to smile during these very great years
 

SharinganUser

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Do this tonight:

1) write down who your favorite comedians are.

2) download their shows (audio or video)

3) Put them on your mp3 player, Ipod or what ever you have.

4) Listen to them.
 

MisterMcGee

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"The contagious laugh"
When something funny happens, laugh. But laugh a bit to yourself after it happens.
It works even better if the girl did something that's not really funny, because it shows that she amuses you.

She tries to twist a cap on a bottle and fails cause it's not on straight.
*laugh* oh man... *laugh...*
She'll be like "what!" and all blushing and embarrassed and will probably laugh herself.
 

Four_Aces

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As I've gotten more mature, I smile less. It's about mindset. Smiling is a product of nervousness, more often than not. I still smile/laugh A LOT while with friends.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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