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Managing overly keen girls ?

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Matched with a HB 7 on tinder on Friday sent the obligatory “hey whats up” message Sunday morning not expecting much as usual

but this time it was a bit different as this chick actually knew me i didn’t know her but then i clicked that i had actually seen her around town and shes fit def worth one !

Moved my game up a gear and quickly got her number kept the texts short and flirty to begin with which i liked and within about 7 or 8 texts it was more than clear she was well up for a bang which unfortunately due to my logistics has had to be scheduled for this Friday (convieniently a bank holiday for us in the uk ;) )

Anyway i left it at that but then she carried on texting me stuff like “ oh im so exited for Friday your proper hot” and “ i cant wait to meet you” “you seem so nice” ...... im just thinking what da fuq :rolleyes:

Ive never had a chick this into me before just from a
days texting so i was really sure how the he*l to respond to it

I tried my best to play it as cool as i possibly could without seeming too uninterested or too beta

Its a fine line and it was getting hard work balancing on it so i just ended the convo

Has anyone any previous experience of dealing with a chick like this ?

Do i play into it ? or do i brush it off ?

Cos tbh i really don’t fancy keeping this up until Friday but at the same time i want the pussay !! :/
 

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We frequently read here about girls as good as dead not keen on replying whatsoever and makes a man unsure if she's still alive or was electrocuted by her cellphone charger and Now...for a change, meet the Overly keen girl. Yay! LOL ;-)

consider it a good sign man, she's into you. So, what would you normally do just in case?
 

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haha i know ive had plenty of that type myself in the past !

hence why i didnt know wtf to do with this one :whistle:

will keep it cool over the next few days until D day just hope she isnt all talk and ends up flaking...... really hate those type of girls:nono:
 

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I've had this a couple of times in my early days. I'd just say watch out as they have very high expectations of you or could be on the rebound.
 

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Bingo-Player said:
haha i know ive had plenty of that type myself in the past !

hence why i didnt know wtf to do with this one :whistle:

will keep it cool over the next few days until D day just hope she isnt all talk and ends up flaking...... really hate those type of girls:nono:
Well, that's life isn't it, even with a great game, sometimes you hit nothing w/ women, and there are times you hit big time.

A girl that's into you would not complicate things and will make it easier for you to pursue, and it's the girls job to chase afterwards.

Yeah, even with those messages we can't be 100.00% certain her talk would also be her walk. Her interest level in you before the actual date "might" still change during the actual date but don't let that bother you man, Your concern is to be yourself with your date, have yourselves a good time. That's what matters.

So let us know afterwards how your date with this girl went :)

Cheers!
 

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Yea we shall see how this pans out either way im very lightly invested atm so not particularly bothered whatever the outcome just want a bang to kick off the weekend ;)

after going through her FB pics its hard to say wether she is actually HB 7 or HB 6 one of those girls I suspect that looks better in the flesh either way we both know that on purely looks I am out of her league

but I like how petite she is , shes cute and judging from the texts shes sending she knows what shes doing in the sack

Didn’t bother texting her yesterday however she text me late evening to see how my day went so I replied politely about an hour later but kept the convo short & sweet by saying I was having an early night

If she doesn’t flake by Friday then I would say I can definitely f*ck close after a few drinks gonna start escalating kino with
her virtually as soon as I meet her

Anyway will keep you guys posted on the outcome
 

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nearly forgot to update this for everyone.....

well surprise surprise i text her on thursday asking if we were still on for tomorrow (friday) and i got the absolute classic line of

"I think I'm coming down with the flu" so sorry what you doing saturday xxx

i actually lol'd hard when that came through :cry:

didn't bother replying to that had a few texts after all massively contradicting each other and more lol's on my part ( house mate was wondering wtf was going on by this point)

urrm then to cut a long story short she says monday would be better for her ( seriously who the fu*ck dates on a monday ) still haven't replied and i won't be either

not really sure were this story fits in the DJ's spectrum but I'm sure someone will put it too good use

again i can't stress enough how high this chicks interest level was until i would say roughly thursday evening and she gave absolutely no signs of a classic flake or attention wh*ore

i am at least a league if not 2 up from her

and before anyone asks yes i am 100% sure she wasn't actually ill
 

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Monday? I'll be fvcking girls on Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday. My c0ck rests on saturday and sunday but i'm considerate and still wants to give you a shot and you ruined your chance. You're out girl. Don't bother texting me again. hehehe
 
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