"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Man who slapped female reporter's bottom on live TV arrested

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A forty three year old father slaps a hot reporter on the butt while running a race. He is ARRESTED and charged with SEXUAL BATTERY. Sexual battery is “physical contact with the intimate parts of the body of another person without the consent of that person” punishable by up to TWELVE months in jail.


Does she have a point or is she over reacting?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think a State criminal arrest is overkill but a city or county ordinance fine would be appropriate. Those don’t go on your criminal record or come with jail time unless you don’t comply with paying them. If you do then you pay and it’s done and over. But of course she is part of the media collective so she will get the full opportunity to ruin this guys life six ways from Sunday.
 

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As much as I believe this guy in overpunished, I appreciate the fact that this events will help to wake up further men to the state of things.

Better yet I want betas and average guys (those punished for such actions unlike top tier) to be scared to death to even interact in a non professional way with women, thats the only way to have law and academia to notice that there is a problem.
 

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She has a point, but I don't think 12 months for it is justifiable. He'll probably get way way less if he's found guilty. I'd give him a couple of weeks.

It's not ok to go slap a stranger on the a$$ like that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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He is just being charged and it is an "up to" punishment. He is a white guy in the US. He will probably just get probation or a little community service or a fine at the end of the day. The charges is just for show. Would not be surprized if they get withdrawn on an easy plea deal. White priviledge right? If it were a Black man on this white reporter then 12 years and he would have been charged at the scene. Two tiered system.
 

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He is just being charged and it is an "up to" punishment. He is a white guy in the US. He will probably just get probation or a little community service or a fine at the end of the day. The charges is just for show. Would not be surprized if they get withdrawn on an easy plea deal. White priviledge right? If it were a Black man on this white reporter then 12 years and he would have been charged at the scene. Two tiered system.
Sure cause feminism and women rights always side with white men needs right? has to be the new paradigm for conservatives in a parallel world I guess.
 

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Sure cause feminism and women rights always side with white men needs right? has to be the new paradigm for conservatives in a parallel world I guess.
Can you imagine if he was wearing maga hat? They'd be hanging him in the media.

Oh and if you look at the reporters, more photos of her not just the usual airbrushed glamour shots of her shes not even worth getting arrested over. Shes not hot.
 

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A forty three year old father slaps a hot reporter on the butt while running a race. He is ARRESTED and charged with SEXUAL BATTERY. Sexual battery is “physical contact with the intimate parts of the body of another person without the consent of that person” punishable by up to TWELVE months in jail.


Does she have a point or is she over reacting?
Shes not hot. Look at more photos of her not ones with heavy makeup or airbrushed.

Most of these reporters are not hb8 with the makeup and cameras. We have reporters down here that are a lot hotter.
 

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Sure cause feminism and women rights always side with white men needs right? has to be the new paradigm for conservatives in a parallel world I guess.
Exactly. We will have to see how this case unfolds. White women would rather a conservative government that upholds white supremacy than an egalitarian equal rights where their "white" status would lower. That's why so many white women voted for Trump. They love the "I can cry that a Black man looked at me the wrong way" and watch a Black city like Tulsa Oklahoma 1921 end up as ruins over a lie, or see an innocent Black boy Emmit Till, be savagely mutilated and and killed and then later admit it's a lie on her death-bed. You think a racist white woman would want to give up that power and vote for a party that would lower their "white" status?

Feminism and women's rights only seem to attack Black men. Only Bill Cosby went to jail because it was a "Black man and White woman".
This is because it's simply a conspiracy to put more Black men into jail by making up false rape claims against celebrities and portray Black men as making babies and abandoning their families so that welfare will be paying to support the single mother households. All part of the propaganda.

When it really comes down to it, white feminism will only use black women, and women of colour as body counts for their parades or marches, but when it comes to it, they don't give a crap about them and turn a blind eye if they get raped by a white man, especially if he's wearing a badge. Yeah, how about women of colour who are abused by the police or raped inside jails? When it comes to Black women or women of colour, then nobody seems to care about their rights when push comes to shove because they are just good for being used for feminists and are pawns.

I will take a case in point. The Mixed race prostitute who killed a white man in self-defense ends up going to jail, but has to be pardoned because the criminal justice system threw her under the bus: Cyntonia Brown. Imagine if the john was Black and it was a teenage or underage blonde white girl?

What parallel world?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Can you imagine if he was wearing maga hat? They'd be hanging him in the media.

Oh and if you look at the reporters, more photos of her not just the usual airbrushed glamour shots of her shes not even worth getting arrested over. Shes not hot.
No, Trump would pay for this legal defense. Monkey see, monkey do. He can say he was just following Trump and if he can get away with it, then he should too, right?
 

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No, Trump would pay for this legal defense. Monkey see, monkey do. He can say he was just following Trump and if he can get away with it, then he should too, right?
Except Trumpy is a deadbeat. He don't pay his bills. He stiffs "university" students, charities, contractors, etc.
 

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Dumbass thing to do but lets not equate that to sexual harassment.
 

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If on this forum, we hear of a woman that receives an unwelcomed butt pat from a man .......and the first thing that enters your brain is "Pres. Trump" or a racial scenario, then I have some good news for you.
No one is oppressing you.
You are oppressing yourself.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Agreed, the guy is a moron, but why is it okay for a lady to grab a dude's ass, but a dude cannot grab a lady's ass?
Imo this man is likely just an attention ***** and wanted to do something on tv for attention.
 

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The thing is, if some guy did that to my woman I would pulverize him.

I read about 20 years ago that men in Italy smack women's asses on the regular. Has that changed?

When I was a teen, my friends and I were at a carnival, and one of them said, "I think I'll bite her on the ass" and he knelt down behind her and actually did it! This was the 70s. I was so stupid that I didn't know if this was acceptable or not. I was taking cues from my friends about right and wrong, and they were nut cases. Fortunately, I never bit a stranger's ass. Some men just don't grow up. Took me decades.
 

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She has a point, but I don't think 12 months for it is justifiable. He'll probably get way way less if he's found guilty. I'd give him a couple of weeks.

It's not ok to go slap a stranger on the a$$ like that.
I agree, but it has messed things up.

Let’s say a guy and a girl are at home on the couch watching a movie, he tries to touch her, she freaks out, goes to police next day and tells them “I didn’t consent he could touch my breast, he violated me and took away my power.” Guy has to apologize and say it was a moment of weakness and do community service not to get a criminal record.

Now how can any guy make a move on a girl he is attracted to without asking for consent, and not be afraid he will be arrested and charged? Even if gets consent to touch her, she can always change her mind.

It’s tough sledding.
 

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@Trump Those are not comparable scenarios, your argument is absurd.

Do you really think the court would completely dismiss the circumstances and look at the act in such an isolated manner? I think not.

So yeah, let's say you're at home, in the couch, watching a movie with a girl. There would presumably be some relevant communication prior to this taking place, most likely documenting the context of how she ended up in that couch. She agreed to come over, probably knowing what type of meetup it would be. Meaning it's not unreasonable to think it would be more appropriate.

In general this is what battery is.
  1. an offensive touch or contact is made upon the victim, instigated by the actor; and
  2. the actor intends or knows that their action will cause the offensive touching.
Note point 2 "intends or knows". In a date situation it's damn near impossible to know that advancing to touch her would be offensive. You'd have to proceed past her objections to be in trouble in that type of context, because at that point you know and you intend it.

So, back to the video. This is different because he must have been living under a rock his entire life to be unaware that slapping a woman (or anyone for that matter) he doesn't know on the a$$ is considered offensive by most people. It would be a very weak excuse to claim he didn't know that.

Even if gets consent to touch her, she can always change her mind.
No higher chance than a woman knowing about your mere existence and slightly disliking you, whether you ever touched her or not. She can go report that, make up some BS story and most likely not get anywhere with it. On top of that she'd risk being charged with false accusations. If it really was that easy to put a man in jail using pure fiction then a lot more of us would have been locked up. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but reading a news story here and there of it happening doesn't provide a realistic view.

tl;dr Touching a stranger on the a$$, not ok. Trying to touch someone invited for a date on the boobs, totally okay if potential rejection is respected.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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