"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Man thongs - new fashion?!

Sveen

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Clue me in please are thongs for men now the rave or something? Or do only gay gusy wear them?

Reason I am asking is because a few weeks ago I saw some kid who had those thong sides peeking out a bit from his jeans. I've never met the guy before so I don't know his story, just know he is 21 yrs old. Now this past weekend a bunch of us (~80 people) went camping and party for the weekend and he was there too. Somehow while drinking it came out again that he wears "man thongs" and he didn't deny it, he just said he likes how they feel :eek: Next morning the guys played a prank on him and got into the trunk of Jeep while he slept and found 3 pairs of his thongs and hung em around. We threw one into the tent of one very drunk girl, just to give her something to wonder about when she woke up LOL

Anyhow nothing against the guy but am I wrong to think that no straight man will ever wear thong underwear? Well unless he is dancing on stage LOL
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wyldfire

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Originally posted by Sveen
Clue me in please are thongs for men now the rave or something? Or do only gay gusy wear them?

Reason I am asking is because a few weeks ago I saw some kid who had those thong sides peeking out a bit from his jeans. I've never met the guy before so I don't know his story, just know he is 21 yrs old. Now this past weekend a bunch of us (~80 people) went camping and party for the weekend and he was there too. Somehow while drinking it came out again that he wears "man thongs" and he didn't deny it, he just said he likes how they feel :eek: Next morning the guys played a prank on him and got into the trunk of Jeep while he slept and found 3 pairs of his thongs and hung em around. We threw one into the tent of one very drunk girl, just to give her something to wonder about when she woke up LOL

Anyhow nothing against the guy but am I wrong to think that no straight man will ever wear thong underwear? Well unless he is dancing on stage LOL
Thongs, like spandex shorts, bikini underwear and speedos should be illegal for men to wear unless they are swimmers competing or bicyclists competing. Nut huggers are NOT attractive...and especially not worn "peek-a-boo" from the pants style.

The guy had to have been gay.
 

frivolousz21

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Thongs, like spandex shorts, bikini underwear and speedos should be illegal for men to wear unless they are swimmers competing or bicyclists competing. Nut huggers are NOT attractive...and especially not worn "peek-a-boo" from the pants style.
:woo:
 

italostud

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I dunno guys, I usually like to wear a thong when I'm wearing my assless chaps.
 

spider_007

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I heard that on the radio onece. The host of the show tried them on with his g/f. he said that they went around his nuts and "TRUSTED (exact word he used)" them forward. He didn't perticularly enjoyed the experience (NOR DID HIS G/F who tretend to dump him if he puts them on again)....... They are trying to introduce them......but i don't think i'll really pickup like female tongs did.

i'll stick to my brifs. I tried boxers once and I found out that there is such thing as too much freedom.:eek:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Wyldfire

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Originally posted by italostud
I dunno guys, I usually like to wear a thong when I'm wearing my assless chaps.
How many times have I told you to stay OUT of my closet! Those are MY ass-less chaps. :D
 

Climax

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What about "party boy" from "Jackass"?:D


Laterz...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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C00L

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guys with thong straps stickin out the side? WTF WTF WTF
 

picard

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I wouldn't be caught dead wearing a thong. I prefer regular brief
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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OzyBoy

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I would wear thongs on my feet but thats it - i'm not gay, i am very straight.
 
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