"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Man spends $40,000 to prove ex-girlfriend wrong
- Thread starter Rave18
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ChalengeGuyFan
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A+ for the man! 
I know some of you will call him AFC, immature, etc. But most of us (all?) have frustrations or anger that's boiling inside. That's how that bloke let go of the steam accumulated over the years.
Some of you may say that those money could have been better spent. Yeah, but it wouldn't have had the same effect on him (which is all that mattered).
I know some of you will call him AFC, immature, etc. But most of us (all?) have frustrations or anger that's boiling inside. That's how that bloke let go of the steam accumulated over the years.
Some of you may say that those money could have been better spent. Yeah, but it wouldn't have had the same effect on him (which is all that mattered).
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Wow, seven years. Means this guy has been fuming inside for seven years. I hope he made more than the 40K it cost him.
They say success IS the best revenge, but 40K can certainly buy one a lot of hot Chinese hookers.
I'm not sure this is the best thought out revenge strategy, but WTF, it's his cash.
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He's still thinking about ME 7 years/40K later vs Hey she's hotter than me !!
This guys apparently clueless as to how to make chicks mad. Congratulations mate now she not only pity's you, you also gave her an ego boost
This guys apparently clueless as to how to make chicks mad. Congratulations mate now she not only pity's you, you also gave her an ego boost