"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Man on wire - 2008

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Anybody watch this?
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1155592/

It was on tv tonight.

Very insightful and gripping film.
For anyone who is reading/ has read Think and Grow Rich - Napoleon Hill, the man Philippe is clearly a success story through careful planning, "use" of other people and determination- but at what cost?

The film ends predictably and if not on a slightly disturbing and sad note.
Recommended documentary.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i saw it yesterday, quite amazin but i had to stop at the part where he was arrested and taken to a nut house cos i had to wake up for work.

What happened in the end thats so sad? ....Pm me if u don't wanna spoil the surprise for anyone but if u don't care then u can just reply in the thread.
 

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Subtle things to do with the relationships he forged in his quest, I strongly recommend viewing this. Beautiful footage and a powerful story.
 
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