betterthandead
Senior Don Juan
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Man makes a mistake trying to propose to his girlfriend on the radio
- Thread starter betterthandead
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
BadsnakeUK
Don Juan
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Next track: Kanye West's Golddigga...
What's the odds this guy's going to turn up on this site one day when he's finally decided to man up and stop bottom-feeding on skanks?
What's the odds this guy's going to turn up on this site one day when he's finally decided to man up and stop bottom-feeding on skanks?
MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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Lol!
Actually, it shows some gumption on her part. She will not marry until her man has shown himself to be a good provisioner. She was probably not really a true girlfriend of her - but rather someone who was just hanging around while she was looking for the BBD.
Actually, it shows some gumption on her part. She will not marry until her man has shown himself to be a good provisioner. She was probably not really a true girlfriend of her - but rather someone who was just hanging around while she was looking for the BBD.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Her way to speaking to him was loaded with entitlement and contempt. SHe regards him as some kind of "employee" who is in her life to fill her needs.MatureDJ said:
An AI baitch.
Welcome to SS Tony ( we are here to help when you do finally get around to dumping that Kamp Kommandant that you currently want to marry )
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.