"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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man, it doesn't get any worse then this lol

MindOverMatter

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about two weeks ago, i had this dream where i was a substitute teacher in my old high school, and every girl in the class was one of my exes or a girl i went out with, and they were all passing notes in class, and i had this feeling they were talking about me. needless to say, i woke up all stressed out.

fast forward to yesterday.

im supposed to go to a club with one of the girls i fooled around with (lets call her Lisa) and some friends, but decide against it because i didnt like that particular club, so i told her i had to work the midnight-6 am shift at work.

anyway i make plans with some of my buddies to go to a different club. it's around 8:30pm at this time, so the night is still early for me. i go to shave, and realize my razor is all blunt and im all out of razors. so i decide to go for a walk to the nearest conveniance store, and pick up some razors. on my way back, i run into my Lisa (she's my neighbour) and one of her friends (lets call her Stacy), they're on their way to the bus stop to go to that club (no idea why they would go so early). anyway i tell them to have fun and i go home.

later that night, i go out with the boys, and think nothing more of it.

today Lisa calls me and the conversation goes like this:

her: hey
me: whats up
her: do you know kara? (kara is the name ill use instead of the real name, but basically she's another ex)
me: yeah i know her why
her: i met her last night, through my friend stacy
me: ah cool
her: you two dated?
me: yeah for a while, why?
her: was just curious, she's really cool, im going out with her and stacy again tonight, ttyl
me: later

now, apparently, stacy, knows both of my exes. ive never met her before, but i once talked to kara on webcam and she was there, and she remembered me. so she introduced the two of them.

now here is when it gets tricky. i kinda met both girls the same way (at a bus stop), and i kinda did the exact same sh!t with both of them. meaning, on the first 3-4 dates, i took them both to the exact same places, made the SAME moves on them, etc. i also told Lisa some sh!t about my past, and that included Kara. so there's info to be exchanged.

now, it's only a matter of time before they start talking about the only thing they have in common (me) and start comparing notes. this is not something i wanted. i dont like the fact i got both of them being buddy-buddy behind my back, but at the same time, there's nothing i can do about it really, so i'll just stay cool and brace myself for the hurrican of sh!t and drama that's headed my way. in the end, it's nothing i can't handle.

on a sidenote, im seeing a friends sister right now, and he doesnt know, so if i dont post her in the upcoming days, it's probably cause i got stabbed or something.

take care all

-Mind
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AnkleBreaker

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Yea ur screwd same happen to me 4 girls i dated they all knew each other, now ther all pissed at me except for the one im with now.
 

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Tough luck man, good luck :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
now here is when it gets tricky. i kinda met both girls the same way (at a bus stop), and i kinda did the exact same sh!t with both of them. meaning, on the first 3-4 dates, i took them both to the exact same places, made the SAME moves on them, etc. i also told Lisa some sh!t about my past, and that included Kara. so there's info to be exchanged.
Oh man! Let me guess, you kissed both of them with the same mouth, felt them up with the same fingers and bonked them both with the exact same d1ck too, right?

You're in for it. Hahaha.
Man, when they exchange notes and find out it was the same tool.

Wouldn't want to be you, man.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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