"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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man Im hated on by alot of people now.

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not gonna mention the name of the club/group of people for my own safety. all im gonna say is that it's a car club.

so anyway, i had the most popular girl forum member of this club/group.

long story short she fell for me. i ****ed her she gave me dozens of BJ, i paid for her dinner 1 time, she paid for the rest... she even wanted to give me an IPOD for my bday. (of w/c i didnt accept, it didnt feel right)

she fell deeply inlove with me and went ballistically crazy/stalker person.

she suddenly knew EVERYTHING about me, what time, what place i was.. etc.

SHE EVEN TOLD ME SHE LOVED ME MORE THAT MY OWN MOTHER DOES.

we are not even in a relationship. we were just simply dating.

then the wierdest of coincidences in the world happened......

girl #1's bestfriend suddenly knew someone whom i was also recently dating!

so she told girl #1 about me, and we had an arguement/fight and never spoke again..

next thing i know people from the forums were calling me and sending me offensive messages.

i decided to never visit the site again. alot of people hate me now. i didnt do anything wrong.

o well... :(
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nobody feels for me? im sorry i just had to rant about this. i gues its just a ****ed up coincidence,,

I'll suck it up and keep sarging.

that's life.

thanks. just needed to let it out even though no1 replied., i felt better.
 

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Dude you sunk it in, and she kissed it, more power to you ;)
 

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Well thats fvcked up. Girls will lead a guy on and mess with his head and he'll fall in love with her, and then she of course cuts him off getting everything she wanted from him. And if he persists, then everyone will call him a stalker and blame him and not the girl.

Now the girl is really the one who's stalking you and you didn't lead her on. Yet everyone calls you the bad guy. Funny how if the guy supposely stalks a girl it's his fault, and if she's the one stalking it's still his fault. IT'S ALWAYS THE GUY IN THE WRONG AND NEVER THE FEMALE. This is why a lot of people think this society is too pro-female. I'm assuming your from the USA or some western country.

Well you got to bang her and get her to fall for you, too bad they all went off on you. But screw them, all those guys are the real AFC that's always talked about here.
 

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Sh!t happens, move on, and go tell the ppl that are pissed off with you that u neva did anything wrong, u were NOT committed to ANY of those girls, and u could do whatever u wanted to do with other women. then phone this girl up and tell her that u never knew she was taking the dating thing so seriously, and that u apologize for hurting her so bad. If she is still pissed off, then thats HER problem. If the ppl at the forum still hate u, its prob cause they wanna get into her pants. You do your part, make ur point clear to her and them, and how they take it is their problem.


Laterz...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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let me get this strait; the gurl is obsesed with you, she knows everything about you, you've been nailing her and getting b/j (quiet ofter i persume) hummmm..... and you didn't even once get the hint she wanted a commited relationship.... I just don't get haw you didn't see it comming:confused:

no wonder people hate you

Unless a woman says, or acts like she doesn't want a relatinship, you can safely assume she does (you can even bet on it.)
 

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well dont mess with love. if you knew she loves you you should tell her you dont or that you are seeing other girls. you were not loyal so you got dumped. and forums.. why do you care about websites. mainly nothing bad happened, but you should care about her feeling a little ;)
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