"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Man i Got Flaked; Doesn't Feel Good

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Man i asked this girl out a few days ago, and i waited at the destination for about 15 minutes today. So she doesn't show, but i have her address and i go all the way there.

I ring the doorbell and then her brother and mom answers the door.

Me: Is ________ home?
Brother: EY ARE YOU STILL GOING *yells really loud to upstairs* *her mom gives me a strange stare and doesn't say anything*
Her: *she just yells something back, i don't know what it is*
Brother: She can't make it, sorry.
Me: Ok.

Man this sucks. Well I'm a bit pissed off.
It's such a beautiful day too. Whatever. I'm going to enjoy whats left of today.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Seconding that. If she is not showing up, forget it.
 
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When a girl pulls away from us, whether in a LTR or not, our natural inclination is to push harder toward them, but doing so is the worst thing to do. If a chick pulls away, pull away from her more.

We've all been there. If you learn this lesson at only 17, you will be ahead of your peers in the dating game.
 
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Bible_Belt said:
When a girl pulls away from us, whether in a LTR or not, our natural inclination is to push harder toward them, but doing so is the worst thing to do. If a chick pulls away, pull away from her more.
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Well put.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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