"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Man I give up

KillingTime

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Straight up, i've spent thousands on nice threads, skin products, expensive hair salon appointments..... after all that I still look like a 4 or 5 at the most IMO.
Don't get me wrong, ive seen worse but I'm lightyears away from what I want to look like.

Had a lot of acne skin problems, which ive almost gotten under control but your left with some bad scarring... already had surgical dermabrasion on the scars and it didn't do a thing. I'm also really pale (well for a Mexican) but i can't tan b/c everytime I do my skin breaks out really bad.
I've always had a really fat face, even when I was younger and incredibly scrawny (about 9% b/f) my face was still always very gary coleman-like and I was always made fun of for my chubby cheeks.
My hair... jet black and like a brillo pad. Can't grow it, usually just get some ghetto looking fade... black hair doesn't reflect light like blonde or brown so even if I let it grow out an inch it just looks like a fro.
Clothes... eh, spent thousands and nothing seems to look right on me. Gone from preppy to hip-hop to grunge to GQ.... looked like ass either way.

Im pretty much ready to call it quits, ive put so much hard work into my appearance and it honestly hasn't paid off at all... maybe one day I can get some plastic surgery to at least take care of some of the stuff.
For now I look like your average ghetto looking guy on the street, at least im a bodybuilder so i'll be in good shape and
i'm on the wealthy side, hope that and some good game can help me out because looks certainly are NOT on my side and I guess I might as well face it.

jay-Z and Howard Stern keep my hopes up though, with cash and an attitude seems like you can bang just about any chick no matter how ugly you are.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sir Space

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Hey man dont be so down on urself.

I mean sh1t, maybe you need to work on inner game first.
 

silverwex

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Post a pic so we can have a look and give our opinions.
 
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