"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Man I give up

KillingTime

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Straight up, i've spent thousands on nice threads, skin products, expensive hair salon appointments..... after all that I still look like a 4 or 5 at the most IMO.
Don't get me wrong, ive seen worse but I'm lightyears away from what I want to look like.

Had a lot of acne skin problems, which ive almost gotten under control but your left with some bad scarring... already had surgical dermabrasion on the scars and it didn't do a thing. I'm also really pale (well for a Mexican) but i can't tan b/c everytime I do my skin breaks out really bad.
I've always had a really fat face, even when I was younger and incredibly scrawny (about 9% b/f) my face was still always very gary coleman-like and I was always made fun of for my chubby cheeks.
My hair... jet black and like a brillo pad. Can't grow it, usually just get some ghetto looking fade... black hair doesn't reflect light like blonde or brown so even if I let it grow out an inch it just looks like a fro.
Clothes... eh, spent thousands and nothing seems to look right on me. Gone from preppy to hip-hop to grunge to GQ.... looked like ass either way.

Im pretty much ready to call it quits, ive put so much hard work into my appearance and it honestly hasn't paid off at all... maybe one day I can get some plastic surgery to at least take care of some of the stuff.
For now I look like your average ghetto looking guy on the street, at least im a bodybuilder so i'll be in good shape and
i'm on the wealthy side, hope that and some good game can help me out because looks certainly are NOT on my side and I guess I might as well face it.

jay-Z and Howard Stern keep my hopes up though, with cash and an attitude seems like you can bang just about any chick no matter how ugly you are.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sir Space

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Hey man dont be so down on urself.

I mean sh1t, maybe you need to work on inner game first.
 

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Post a pic so we can have a look and give our opinions.
 
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