She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It doesnt make any goddman sense, its the same case of guys bullied at schools that kill random people instead of the bullies.Here's another Elliot Rodgers like idiot, running around killing INNOCENT people because some stupid, dumb, American bytch fvcked him over.
Some bytch by the name of JOY LANE, apparently fvcked this guy over and instead of killing that bytch, he wants to go kill people that had absolutely nothing to do with it?
Where are they manufacturing these idiots at? How the fvck does the innocent old man Robert Godwin have to be killed (along with others as Stevens details), but the bytch JOY LANE is still walking around breathing? I don't advocate any violence, but idiot if you have a beef with that bytch then go kill her, not me!!
Also, can you guys believe that PRO BLACKS/Black Lives Matter idiots are running around calling this the result of white supremacy? I sh*t you not.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You make a good point and it might explain why these guys kill innocent people.It doesnt make any goddman sense, its the same case of guys bullied at schools that kill random people instead of the bullies.
Do they want to punish others for no protecting them or they are simply unable to rational thinking?
Are you going on a killing spree well if you wanna make any sense go after those who harmed you not random innocent people.
This is accurate. Aaron Hernandez story is a good example.Alpha-ism has killed infinitely more people than beta-ism.