Man breaks down why Men don't care about a Woman's career more succinctly than I've ever heard before

[BackInTheGame78]

Haven't watched a lot of his stuff, but Myron from Fresh & Fit breaks down to this girl on campus why Men don't care about a Woman's career...

Essentially he says "It doesn't benefit us at all" and likens it to her interest in a man's shoe sneaker/shoe collection...just simply indifferent to it.

Probably the most succint way that sums it up...

At the end of the day, a man will still always be judged by HIS career and where HE is at. Regardless of anything else, most women still expect the man to be the main earner in the house and even if they don't consciously say or think that, they will start to resent a man and lose respect for him when they are farther along in their career than he is and/or making more money than him.

They might not divorce him, but many will treat him like a peasant for it and disrespect him routinely.

That's when the sex dries up, she starts going out with the "girls" more often, petty arguments start to become more frequent, etc...

And at the end of the day, far too many women out there these days seem more interested in making their man's life hard rather than his d!ck hard.

 

[plumber]

many simply have too much comfort and extra stuff and far to much safety.

 

[MatureDJ]

Men can financially make their way in the world - this is because of the ability for even the dull-minded man being able to do a dirty & nasty job for good pay. The only thing that a man needs outside of this is female intimacy, and so men will bust ass bringing home the bacon so long as there is ass waiting for him at home.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Men can financially make their way in the world - this is because of the ability for even the dull-minded man being able to do a dirty & nasty job for good pay. The only thing that a man needs outside of this is female intimacy, and so men will bust ass bringing home the bacon so long as there is ass waiting for him at home.

I mean a hot woman can go on OF now and "bust her ass" and make 1,000x as much as that man doing that dirty, nasty job for low pay will shell out a bunch of money every month to have a fantasy relationship and access to that woman.

 

[Clockwerk50]

I mean a hot woman can go on OF now and "bust her ass" and make 1,000x as much as that man doing that dirty, nasty job for low pay will shell out a bunch of money every month to have a fantasy relationship and access to that woman.

This is the main flaw in his argument: both a man’s sneaker collection and a woman’s career matter because they reveal a lot about a person’s character.

In the case of sneaker collections, you can learn a lot, whether the shoes were purchased on credit, whether the opportunity cost of spending that money on sneakers could have been better used elsewhere, whether he is simply chasing the next trendy item instead of making thoughtful financial decisions, or if he is willing to sell them to make more money in the future.

On the women’s side, especially in a society where corporations prioritize maximizing shareholder value and assume a traditional household structure, a woman’s career is equally important. Her profession and the way she earns money can indicate what kind of relationship she may be suited for, her financial habits, and her long-term goals. For example, an OnlyFans model, a bartender, or a flight attendant may have different lifestyles and priorities compared to a project manager, a teacher, or an engineer.

Lastly, men are expected to provide many things, including tingles. Most dead bedrooms happen because both people stop doing the things that initially attracted them to each other but that’s a topic for another day.

 

[pipeman84]

Regardless of anything else, most women still expect the man to be the main earner in the house and even if they don't consciously say or think that, they will start to resent a man and lose respect for him when they are farther along in their career than he is and/or making more money than him.

They might not divorce him, but many will treat him like a peasant for it and disrespect him routinely.

That's when the sex dries up, she starts going out with the "girls" more often, petty arguments start to become more frequent, etc...

Money just amplifies the traits a person already has. So it's very hard to convince me that a high quality woman will suddenly start disrespecting her man and go out with the '''girls'' more often if she suddenly makes more money than him.

That's like saying a high quality man who starts earning much more money than before will blow it on high priced hookers and parties instead of using it to enhance the life he has with his woman.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Money just amplifies the traits a person already has. So it's very hard to convince me that a high quality woman will suddenly start disrespecting her man and go out with the '''girls'' more often if she suddenly makes more money than him.

Ive been around "high quality career women." And no, they actually DO go out more with girls thinking it will aid them in getting men. It's rather hilarious to watch.

 

[The Duke]

I will take this one step further. I do care about her career...if its a big priority in her life then she isn't for me but other than that I don't care what she does. It's nothing that will make me more attracted to her.

The more career minded she is, the more of a negative it is for the man. The career minded woman does not make a good partner, too selfish, lacks empathy, and her career will be her priority.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Men are hard wired by evolution to go out and kill sh*t to provide for a grateful wife and kids. That's the motivation to live a successful life. Take away the need to provide for any lady, and you take away the desire to be with that particular woman.

For better or for worse, the ability for women to make their own money has taken away a strong attraction element in male-female relationships.

The modern female fantasy of both people making bank and "living their best life" together (but really separately) is based on a misunderstanding of evolutionary biology.

Raw desire is not logical, so there is no rational reason why men are naturally less attracted to career woman.

So, technically, the video kind of misses the point.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Money just amplifies the traits a person already has. So it's very hard to convince me that a high quality woman will suddenly start disrespecting her man and go out with the '''girls'' more often if she suddenly makes more money than him.

That's like saying a high quality man who starts earning much more money than before will blow it on high priced hookers and parties instead of using it to enhance the life he has with his woman.

Look around what happens when people suddenly come into money...it happens all the time.

Call those "dormant" traits...

What someone is willing to do versus what they want to do when it's available to them.

 

[Sega Genesis]

So it's very hard to convince me that a high quality woman will suddenly start disrespecting her man and go out with the '''girls'' more often if she suddenly makes more money than him.

^^I agree @pipeman84 ...

But we should ask @BeExcellent since this is the dynamic in her marriage, although I think she has always out-earned her hubs.

They're both high earners but I believe BE earns more.

Personally I don't think it means a hill of beans as long as her career doesn't take priority over her relationship/marriage even if she does earn more or has more money generally and cares about her career.

 

[plumber]

Money just amplifies the traits a person already has. So it's very hard to convince me that a high quality woman will suddenly start disrespecting her man and go out with the '''girls'' more often if she suddenly makes more money than him.

That's like saying a high quality man who starts earning much more money than before will blow it on high priced hookers and parties instead of using it to enhance the life he has with his woman.

both of your example i see all the time. the one for the women, and the one for the men. its not gender specific. its rare that a man or a woman will hold the line. it does happen, but not often.

or maybe we are just refining what high quality means in a man or a woman and result is a smaller set.

 

[BadBoy89]

A woman will think: Why should I make a man’s life easy? I have to put work in, I don’t get paid for it. I don’t get recognition, I don’t get satisfaction.

A man’s mistake in all this is thinking a woman cares about him.

 

[Solomon]

The statistics prove that people who are in the same or similar socio-economic background tend to marry each other

 

[LTG71]

Men are hard wired by evolution to go out and kill sh*t to provide for a grateful wife and kids. That's the motivation to live a successful life. Take away the need to provide for any lady, and you take away the desire to be with that particular woman.

A man is driven to produce and be appreciated for his efforts. Once you remove this element, you remove motivation and desire. Society started killing this desire when women started saying they didn’t need a man. Chivalry was considered misogynistic and all things male started being seen as wrong. Regardless of a woman’s career, that ingrained idea that the man has to be a higher earner and provider has not been removed. Women are often repulsed by the idea of solely providing for a man.

 

[LTG71]

“I’ll explain this in crayon eating terms…” Ironic statement from someone who starts off with, “ I use every pronoun and there are more than two genders.“ Marion explained basic societal norms and innate biological drivers and she was stumped. This is where I’m 100% behind abortion rights if it limits these idiots from procreating

 

[BackInTheGame78]

^^I agree @pipeman84 ...

But we should ask @BeExcellent since this is the dynamic in her marriage, although I think she has always out-earned her hubs.

They're both high earners but I believe BE earns more.

Personally I don't think it means a hill of beans as long as her career doesn't take priority over her relationship/marriage even if she does earn more or has more money generally and cares about her career.

A woman will think: Why should I make a man’s life easy? I have to put work in, I don’t get paid for it. I don’t get recognition, I don’t get satisfaction.

A man’s mistake in all this is thinking a woman cares about him.

Too many women think it's their role to make their man's life hard rather than his d!ck hard these days.