"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I got boobs that are a little fat looking, not huge but they are noticable. And I think it has to be extremely un-attractice, and if I lose them I know my confidence will soar..

Currently all I do is run 2 miles 5 times a week. I started out not being able to run even a 1/4 of a mile to running 1 a day, than 2 a day and im pushing for 3. I dont really have access to a gym, I simply put on some running shoes and I figured out the distance from a certain street to another, using a car ofcourse. I started this 2 month's ago and I used to weight 215 pounds, now I weigh 204. Im horrible at figuring out how to lose body fat. Any tips?

The running is showing gradual results, but I would like to learn how to tone out my chest, I dont have access to a gym though.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Fallen33 said:
Push-ups..... Lots of em.
I heard pushups only do so much......can anybody else back up this statement?
 

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Run a steady jog, not at a strenuous pace, for 45 minutes. Don't focus on the distance you run, just focus on the length of time for which you are running.

Diet will play a bigger role than exercise for you. You don't need to be on a zone style diet to lose weight, you just need to know what to cut out, cut back on, and what to load up on.

Don't eat pasta's or breads after 5 PM is a quick tip I picked up from a personal fitness instructor who had been bodybuilding for 17 years and hadn't missed a single workout in that time.

Losing 5 lbs per month is a very respectable amount. This is especially considering that your legs have undoubtedly become stronger as a result of all of the running, thereby increasing your lower body and core strength, thereby increasing muscle mass, thereby increasing weight due to muscle. This means that you've probably lost more fat than 11 lbs, but you gained muscle in the process (which is certainly a good thing).

Also, if you step up to 45 minute-runs, don't do them 5 times per week. Just do them 3 times per week. I'm surprised that you haven't run into any knee or joint problems running 2 miles 5 days per week for 2 months.

I'd go to any large bookstore and check out the exercise and fitness section. Those books are pretty hardcore, but incorporating just HALF of what they suggest into your lifestyle may have a HUGE impact on your weight and overall health.
 

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I had shin splints and took a 10 day break do to vacation, and now im fine. 45 minutes, I dont think I can do that.....literally id run over 5 miles
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How fat are you? your runing ten miles a week and you still have man boobs? what is your diet like?
 

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hehe, 5 Foot 7 204 pounds now.. I dont look like it, but I am. Heres a pic.. http://myspace-749.vo.llnwd.net/00144/94/79/144089749_l.jpg



My diet, well...its not the best


Breakfast: Bagel w/c heese....or a small bowel of instand oatmeal...something like that usually, and a glass of milk.

Lunch: School lunch consists of either chicken product or beef, and its most likely processed. Average of 400 calories per meal, maybe less maybe more pending on the meal.

Dinner: Home made hamburger on the "george forman" grill thingy. lmao, ummm sometimes I eat hot dogs, kolbosa, fries, Spaghetti, pizza.......it varies between stuff like that. I know its not the best, but I cant be picky when Im broke and my family feeds me for free =P

Not a horrible diet I dont think, I can adjust if it is absolutely necessary, I have noticed a decline in my chest fat wise, it just seems like it is taking way to long. There must be a way to tone that area out or something, I dunno....weird.:woo:
 

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Word, I know its not good....but compared to what it used to be omfg, it should be considered lovely. haha, I know its bad. help me !
 

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If you're working with cafeteria food, then you might want to make each lunch like this:

Before eating ANYTHING that you've got, drink a full glass of water. Then eat a salad. THEN you can eat more food.

I had a roomate who went from 285 to 215 without working out at all in under 6 months (that's about 10-12 lbs per month). All he did was change his diet like that for lunch and dinner.

He was a lazy piece of **** and he lost 10 lbs per month, and if you're working out a lot this might seriously increase your gains. Be cautious though.... if you're training hard and you decrease your caloric intake too much, you could run into problems.

It seems like you are losing weight, and you're seeing athletic gains. What more could you ask for in 2 months?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What is the point of drinking this glass of water and eating a salad?
 

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Water supresses the appetite, makes skin clearer and speees up metabolism. The salad, i guess is because its presumably healthy and once youve eaten you wont want to eat much more.

Dude, do you drink a lot? You diet inst that bad, how long have you been doing the runs for?
 

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Buck Rogers said:
Water supresses the appetite, makes skin clearer and speees up metabolism. The salad, i guess is because its presumably healthy and once youve eaten you wont want to eat much more.

Dude, do you drink a lot? You diet inst that bad, how long have you been doing the runs for?
Dont drink at all, and I have been doing the running for about 2 month's. Only been doing 2 mile runs for a month because it took a while to break free from 1 mile. I can't do it as consistent now though because of the cold season, im not sure what to wear when I run in the cold weather. Im trying to keep it up but its hard lately, what would a good running regime be? Ive just stuck to about 10 miles a week. And my diet, I suppose I could just cut back on some calories. Wonder if there is a way to continue to drop weight without all the running.....I would love to keep running because seeing improvement has amazed me so far, but It is coming to be too cold to do it without proper knowledge...
 

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same story here, winter = gay

its very hard to do proper cardio in winter.
 

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go to a gym and use a treadmill
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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piranha45 said:
go to a gym and use a treadmill

And im broke as ****. :)

Cardio is gonna be hard to obtain over winter :(
 

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Demon said:
I just saw your photo. You're a scrawny kid. Man boobs? You're exaggerating.

Ron Jeremy has man boobs.

I dont think you understand, I want a flatter chest...maybe ill get a picture of my jugs for you all =P Its a black shirt, you cant tell that well....believe me I have chubby titties. lmfao
 

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pvf94 said:
I dont think you understand, I want a flatter chest...maybe ill get a picture of my jugs for you all =P Its a black shirt, you cant tell that well....believe me I have chubby titties. lmfao
If you can't grab a handful, you don't have man boobs. You just have flab.
 

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Deadly_Ripped said:
If you're working with cafeteria food, then you might want to make each lunch like this:

Before eating ANYTHING that you've got, drink a full glass of water. Then eat a salad. THEN you can eat more food.
Why do you want to clog up your digestive system and block the protein by putting a bunch of worthless lettuce in the way?

Protein first...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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