"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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man am i pathetic.. PLS give advice

neonlimited

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Im in a huge hole. i dont know what im doing.

I had a girlfriend for 3 months, broke it off with her, because i thought she was annoying. she has a boyfriend now and I feel like i have made the biggest mistake ever

i know i should hjust cut off all communication but i just CANT.

i know if i could find someone else this would all go away ive read the bible so much and it just ****s me up. i dont know what to do anymore

i just cant meet any other girls
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Cruise

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How about you stop acting like a roody poo, poontang pie you Jabroni and stand up and take a loss for what it is??

p.s. Your pity party looks like :moon: , and I ain't coming over even though you've sent out a mass invitation
 

musclyjerk

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neonlimited: Just because she's banging some other dude, doesn't mean she's any less annoying.

Perhaps she is punishing you and you're letting her.

If you can't cut-off communication, realize how much she is relishing the fact you're in pain or misery. She's loving every last minute of it. Every time you talk to her, she's laughing inside thinking "Har har, take my p*ss in your face".

Start hating her and ignore her for good. It's not that hard, just think of what a fun time she's having letting that guy screw her and then talking to you.

The Muscly Jerk
 

Chosen1

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Bang two chicks call me in the morning. Seriously that's what ross jeffries says. People thinks the Ross is an Ahole but he talks big about you as a person being strong. Not attaching excess meaning. Trust me dude there is going to be at least one chick that likes you. You never knok who it could be. Talk to girls at your work at school find out their intrests and what not and don't be a pansy.
 

Zerotwoonenine

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man u r in a slump, SNAP OUT OF IT NOW OR U R GOING TO END UP BITTER AND OLD.
THERE ARE MILLIONS OF GIRLS OUT THERE, TAKE YOUR TIME TO CLEAR YOU HEAD, DELETE HER NUMER, EMAIL ETC.
GET ANOTHER GIRLFRIEND, ITS NOT HARD
BE A DJ
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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IamtheAlphamale

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Self improvement. If your letting your emotions get to you. You need to create new habbits. If your bar age start going to bars. Who cares if you get rejected. The way I look at is every rejection makes you stronger and getting the number or whatever is good too. Eventually you will be where you want.
 

Rastaman

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Get over her, the best way to get over a chick is get another chick under you. I bet u've not been laid for the past 3mths, do that n it will help u get over this annoying attention wh*ore.
 
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