"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Mall pickup how-tos?

david90

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I need help on mall approach where targets are on the move and where clerks may stop talking to u due to real customers.

Do you just go into a store and chat up a clerk or do u pretend to browse and then chat her up? I pretend to browse and it makes me feel unnatural and cheesy.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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likeaChArM

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well theyre paid to be nice to customers so good luck judging interest! its kindof sad tho because they cant really reject you and walk away they still havto be nice. sometimes when a shop assistant pays particualar attention to me i get a name and flirt abit but i wont take it any further.
 

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There are times when it is just not normal to approach a woman. An example would be a girl walking by herself through the mall. As much as people hate to admit it, it IS weird to stop a random stranger and talk to her, so you're not going to escape that. The only thing you can do is detach yourself from giving a shyt about her reaction and making her feel comfortable by gradually let her know you're not a lunatic.

If you feel "cheesy and unnatural" it's probably because what you're doing IS cheesy and unnatural. YOu have to sincerely not give a fvck whether these people live or die. Only then will you be liberated.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by david90
I need help on mall approach where targets are on the move and where clerks may stop talking to u due to real customers.

Do you just go into a store and chat up a clerk or do u pretend to browse and then chat her up? I pretend to browse and it makes me feel unnatural and cheesy.
In the middle of the holiday rush MIGHT NOT be the best time to go and try to get your rocks off. :p
 
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