"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Male Superiority!

Which is the superior gender?


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smooth guy

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Normally the first option is more appropriate, but with all men treating women like goddesses now in 2007 (AFCs), women have really been given more power comparing to some years back.

Heck today's generation of women don't even know how to boil an egg.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Poonani Maker

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smooth guy said:
Heck today's generation of women don't even know how to boil an egg.
That's why you goto church to try to find one that Can (be the home-maker AND hold down 2 jobs).
 

smooth guy

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Poonani Maker said:
That's why you goto church to try to find one that Can (be the home-maker AND hold down 2 jobs).
Sarging at a churh...lol. Reminds me of Wedding Crashers.
 

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I think many guys who think men are better are getting it wrong.
Women are better at cooking, nurturing, and all the qualities necessary to make a kid grow up, and a husband happy. It's not that men are superior, it's that we as men are superior in what we like to do than woman. Would you care if a woman is better at nurturing a baby than you?
 

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men and women are both good at different things.
thats why there are two kinds of humans, the male kind and the female kind.
neither kind can survive life if the other was not around. (reproduce)
so therefore, neither is greater than the other and both are equal.

picture this:
a caveman leaves his family to go out into the wild, cold forest to hunt and kill dinner.
while he is gone, the cavewoman is stuck up in the cave with all the cavekids. the cavekids are loud, and restless as they were not old enough to go off with their father to hunt.
the caveman is good at tracking an animal and has killed it. he is careful not to drag it home, as other animals would follow the scent of blood back to his cave and hurt his family.
meanwhile, a bear hears the cavekids and enters that cave. the cavewoman is left to fight the bear off by herself to save the cavekids. she picks up a spear and jabs it at the animal, leaving him wounded and running out of the cave.
the caveman comes back into the cave and sees that the cavewoman has started a fire to warm the family and to cook whatever he brings in.
he holds up the rabbit that he brought home and she ah's about what a great caveman hunter he is.
he is very proud of himself and boastful.
as she skins the rabbit to cook it, she thinks about how if she were a braver cavewoman, she would already have some bear cooked up by now.

see how the two go hand in hand?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ValleyDJing said:
I am a firm believer in male superiority, for various reasons. I would say what they are, but I don't have the time to make a long diatribe. Anyways, I've been really into making polls lately, so here's a new one.

Edit: I'm not asking who typically dominates relationships these days. I mean to ask, point blank...

"Are men, better than women?"
Men and women are different. It might sound like hippy crap (actually, if I said we're all the same; that'd be hppy crap, but I digress). I think that we have a chance to learn from each other's strengths and weaknesses to be better people.

I think a man should act strong, less decision making based on pure emotion, and I think that a man should be head of the household.

BUT, with that, there's something to be said for showing patience, and true love to a woman, and naturally, with that comes the chance for the woman to be heard, loved, respected and appreciated. And my ideal woman would not give in to all of my ideas, but would be willing to let me make decisions for the family.

I suppose that the concept of gender superiority is all based on opinion... and what areas we value most. In some areas, we men are lacking. In other areas, we rock. And sometimes our traits / habits can be both a blessing and curse.

All that being said, I like a lot of what I get to do. I get to assert myself. And I don't miss the idea of crying to get out of a ticket. I think we have it better in a lot more areas. I'm glad to be a man.
 
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Your poll is invalid because the question is invalid!

We are complementary natures - there is no superiority or inferiority - but there is a dominant and a submissive nature involved!!
 

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how many homos can I caount... 1 2 3 4... omg 34 and counting.

How many of you have come out of the closet?
 

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The Male superiority concept is just as stupid as the Feminist agenda-crap. It's like, whatever, who gives a sh*t?!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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