"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Male Superiority!

Which is the superior gender?


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ValleyDJing

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I am a firm believer in male superiority, for various reasons. I would say what they are, but I don't have the time to make a long diatribe. Anyways, I've been really into making polls lately, so here's a new one.

Edit: I'm not asking who typically dominates relationships these days. I mean to ask, point blank...

"Are men, better than women?"
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Poonani Maker

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We are superior. There are no female NFL players period.
 

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Unfortunately women are the superior gender in most relationships nowadays.
 

ValleyDJing

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What I meant to ask was, In you're opinion...who is (or should be) the superior gender?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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men are stronger, faster, more intelligent, more assertive, more powerful, etc.

men FTW
 

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I'm going to vote "feminist" because I have an ironic sense of humor.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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naturally males are dominent look at the animal kingdom is the reoson women dont like wimpy guys the like assertive men
 

War Against Betaism

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Males are the superior race. The proof is in relationships themselves. Men these days give so much control over the relationship, women tend to not know how to lead and it leads to arguments and fights, whereas if it's a man, it's usually a healthy relationship unless the man was abusive and he just got out of jail with the name Ortis. So women in general want men to be the superior gender.
 

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Men or women aren't superior to each other. Just different.
 

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Men make more money than women. Therefore men are creating more happiness in the world. Therefore men are better.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Where's the "Whatever sex I am is better" option?
 

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Here's the truth.

If you think a woman is greater than you and you treat all women greater than you. Then you will get no woman.

If you think a woman is lower than you and you treat all woman lower than you. Then you willl limit yourself to that type of woman. A woman who will let you do that to her. And in the long run, that relationship will not last. Especially for a long-term relationship.

If you think a woman is the same as you, and you treat her that way, then you'll get the right girl and you'll get a girl who's self-secure as well.

When you bow to a woman, you get no ass.
When you step on a woman, you will get a woman with no brain and no self-respect and drama.
When you treat a woman the same as you, you get a woman with a brain and with self-respect for herself.
 

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that's bull. Women marry up; everyone knows that. If you treat a woman as lower than you, that doesn't mean you are a b@stard to her. It just means you recognize her limitations as a woman and don't try to treat her like she's a man.

For example, women are generally indecisive.
Women are overly emotional and let themselves get stressed by little things.
Women get involved in stupid drama and gossip.
Women drive very passively.
Women are weaker.
Women (generally) aren't as good at math and science.
Women can't utilize abstract moral concepts as well as men.
Women generally don't rise to the top of businesses, and they don't make as much money.

So if you want to pretend like all these weaknesses aren't there, go ahead. But you're just deluding yourself.
 

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Obsidian said:
...limitations:
For example, women are generally indecisive.
Women are overly emotional and let themselves get stressed by little things.
Women get involved in stupid drama and gossip.
Women drive very passively.
Women are weaker.
Those aren't limitations. That's how women are supposed to be. They were made that way. That's called nature. And it's perfect, in its own way.

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Women (generally) aren't as good at math and science.
Women can't utilize abstract moral concepts as well as men.
Women generally don't rise to the top of businesses, and they don't make as much money.
Those are individual traits, those don't apply to the general traits you listed above.

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So if you want to pretend like all these weaknesses aren't there, go ahead. But you're just deluding yourself.
How are they weaknesses when they are exactly the way they are supposed to be? That's like saying a cat is weak because it can't fly. It's not supposed to fly. It's supposed to be a cat.

Why are you fighting reality?:confused:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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