Male Satellites

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Jam1e

New Member

Nov 13, 2012

Maxtro said:
You pretty much covered it all.

The reason women do this when they are in a relationship is because they are not getting the attention they need from their boyfriend. So in essence by her receiving the attention from other men, she's able to stay in her current, unfulfilling relationship.

I'd like to add that it's impossible to fulfill a woman's every need, insecurity, and hunger; moreover, it's even more impossible to sustain the level of commitment to keep them completely happy. Women are looking for the "Swiss Army Knife" of men, and those men simply don't exist. They will seek out other men to fill in their mysterious voids throughout life.

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.